Since I have only experimented with the Magic Wand and Betty’s Barbell, I would say that I favour both for being my first sex toys ever! I still have so much to experiment. For now on, I love the magic wand because it gives me new sensations and is multipurpose. I use to masturbate to orgasm for a long time with my fingers only so the Wand opens up a new range of interesting pleasurable and powerful sensations that I also use on any other parts of my body to get aroused. I love a soft touch so I use it on first speed most of the time. I like to circle mu vulva and my clit with it and passed over my belly and my breast when I feel aroused. I love the Barbell mostly for the warm it get when inside my vagina as I love to pop it out and passes it on my labia and clit while the metal is very hot. I also enjoy the weight of it. This really is an exerciser you have to work it out.