Bodysex Education | Site-Wide Activity https://education.bodysex.com/activity/ Activity feed for the entire site. Tue, 11 Aug 2026 02:28:51 -0400 https://buddypress.org/?v= en 30 hourly 2 039d818c50bcc959a788e0901140ef0e Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Penetration Preference in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/penetration-preference/#post-10788 Mon, 10 Aug 2026 11:29:19 -0400 When I am adequately aroused after a lot of time with vulva and breast massage, pc engagement, and clitoral stimulation, then I desire penetration. If I take my time, I can work up to larger glass dildos or partner sex. When my body is ready, penetration deeply relaxes my whole pelvic area. Stimulating the cervix through penetration is amazing for…Read more

]]> 0 71bbb547366ebc03d5909c5d1944c91e Amanda Howell replied to the topic Painful Penetration in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/painful-penetration/#post-10780 Sat, 08 Aug 2026 19:03:33 -0400 When Carlin mentions working with someone who struggled to penetrate the larger end of the barbell.  She told her to have a few O’s then use the smaller end a few in and outs and quickly switch to the larger end and she was able to open up and move forward. It’s as if she was this women’s guide into her own pleasure. I love this about the work…Read more

]]> 0 0fae112e37725d812335f1b09b7b69ef Amanda Howell replied to the topic Betty's Barbell in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/bettys-barbell/#post-10779 Fri, 07 Aug 2026 15:00:29 -0400 I learned that if i heat it up and tilt it up towards my g-spot while sliding it in and out, i gain so much more feelings of sheer pleasure.

]]> 0 409681b993b1155794cb5a1ddd221a52 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Penetration: Anything You'd Like to Release? in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/penetration-anything-youd-like-to-release/#post-10775 Sun, 02 Aug 2026 22:18:35 -0400 There is a particular incident from 30 years ago regarding penetration that I would like to let go of. A former partner penetrated me with a finger without my consent while I was asleep. I was so shocked, I couldn’t speak and never spoke about it with him. I held my anger inside and ended the relationship. This incident seems minor when compared…Read more

]]> 0 56aeb4ec60d73fd65aff8a75a3021657 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Is Penetration Significant? in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/is-penetration-significant/#post-10774 Sun, 02 Aug 2026 22:13:41 -0400 Yes, because penetration is something that happens only with consent.

It is also significant because it can bring either great pleasure or great discomfort. It can also signify the potential for pregnancy, in the case of penetration with a penis.

Penetration is something I have spent a lot of mental and emotional energy worrying about in this…Read more

]]> 0 8712e82cb923af4d79501c4ca7612f9e Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Forum: "All Women Can Orgasm . . ." in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/forum-all-women-can-orgasm/#post-10770 Sun, 02 Aug 2026 16:09:35 -0400 The Bodysex workshop leaves no room for “maybe you can or maybe you can’t orgasm.” It’s not even a question.

Each step in the ritual process leads participants deeper into relaxation, self-confidence, knowledge, and arousal needed for orgasm. I think one very important piece of the Bodysex structure is erotic recess (i.e. the orgasm part) in the…Read more

]]> 0 8336054aa0d7a32ae665ab24eb5c3ee3 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic What mightmake it difficult for a woman to orgasm? in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-makes-it-difficult-for-a-woman-to-orgasm/#post-10769 Sat, 01 Aug 2026 19:41:01 -0400 We grow up with images of very loud, showy orgasms or television programs showing literal images of fireworks to represent orgasm. I think many women idealize orgasm or expect it to be a certain way. Learning to tolerate and relax into pleasurable sensations is a necessary prerequisite to any orgasm. I would talk to a women about strategies for…Read more

]]> 0 26d0090fb5628363fe73ed1ad5ba7469 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic "The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm" by Anne Koedt in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-myth-of-the-vaginal-orgasm-by-anne-koedt/#post-10768 Sat, 01 Aug 2026 19:29:04 -0400 I was floored by the definition of frigidity as not being able to have an orgasm through vaginal penetration. This pseudo-scientific belief in so-called frigidity perpetuated generations of absolute ignorance of the function of the clitoris and the anatomy of the clitoris. The quote about the female doctor who recommended “vaginal-clitoral…Read more

]]> 0 5a9e78781d571410b993c4dffc9fc069 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Important Information About Orgasm in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/important-information-about-orgasm/#post-10766 Wed, 29 Jul 2026 21:52:56 -0400 I want all women to know that it’s never too late to learn how to self-pleasure and be orgasmic. No matter how long it takes or no matter what you have experienced in life, you can still find pleasure within yourself. Our orgasm will meet us where we are when we remember that pleasure is our birthright.

]]> 0 97fa6b08fb034875a3e10370158d4f56 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic The Orgasm Project in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/forum-the-orgasm-project/#post-10765 Wed, 29 Jul 2026 21:46:08 -0400 I found myself very moved by Megan’s testimony. How she lived as a single mother without an orgasm and then learned to orgasm at a Bodysex workshop in Canada. Afterwards, she changed her life and her entire approach to sex, including becoming a sex-positive mother for her adolescent son. I also loved how compassionate she was towards her female…Read more

]]> 0 31ee8817ec166b1a06d3a663c66c9195 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Orgasm Myths and Misconceptions in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasm-myths-and-misconceptions/page/2/#post-10763 Mon, 27 Jul 2026 19:30:15 -0400 The are so many myths and misconceptions about female orgasm, but I think the one that reinforces women’s sexual repression deeply is that women are meant to be given or provided their orgasms by their partners. It’s pervasive from a society largely influenced by patriarchal abrahamic religions that creates multiple ways for women to be dependent…Read more

]]> 0 d319aff9081737e818d48fc605738be9 Megan Gilron replied to the topic What is Orgasm? in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-is-orgasm/page/2/#post-10762 Mon, 27 Jul 2026 19:20:36 -0400 An Orgasm is the climax of the journey of pleasure that the body can go on. From desire and arousal, hormones firing and blood pumping in the body. Making senses more powerful, and the heart beat faster. It’s a build-up of physical, emotional, psychological and (I believe) spiritual energy in the body that peaks and can be felt in many parts of…Read more

]]> 0 c2e0b7dc5071635d8d3fe4a97e3b3f07 Megan Gilron replied to the topic What Women Should Know in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-women-should-know/page/2/#post-10757 Wed, 22 Jul 2026 09:27:47 -0400 The information contained in the comprehensive and correct diagrams (many of Betty’s drawings show the relevant information in a variety of ways angles, and tissue layering to be able to see the ways things connect) help women to see how these muscles and nerve connections are contained in the body and the reality of the sheer scope of where it is…Read more

]]> 0 97893232cc9af846fb986feedf711692 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Your Dream for Girls/Women to Access Information in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-dream-for-girls-women-to-access-information/page/2/#post-10752 Mon, 20 Jul 2026 15:28:37 -0400 I dream of girls taught about their bodies, the correct terms and loving words to describe every unique facet of her body and being. I dream of young women empowered with the knowledge of how puberty will impact her body’s growth, her emotions and reactions. She will be armed with holistic tools, support for her nourishment, health and physical…Read more

]]> 0 66996b24b2c6be0b47eb93cb0b1893a9 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Why is It Liberating? in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/why-is-it-liberating/page/2/#post-10751 Mon, 20 Jul 2026 15:10:23 -0400 The patriarchy has very effectively kept all people, but especially women, ignorant of healthy sex education and empowerment towards self knowledge. Women and other marginalized people are at greater risk for not having their experiences represented and therefore not having the knowledge to support the image of their core self. When women know…Read more

]]> 0 4d462e2daaa1ebf7ee60c10064930572 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Orgasm Myths and Misconceptions in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasm-myths-and-misconceptions/page/2/#post-10750 Sun, 19 Jul 2026 18:01:42 -0400 A commonly-held misconception about orgasm is that it comes exclusively from the mind or a person’s mood. It actually comes from the body, from activation of pleasure centers in the physical genitals. The mind participates, but is not the primary driver of orgasm. Making the experience about the mind instead of the body serves to constantly s…Read more

]]> 0 7f7e92d8c2f088e77cb50dfc9433bad9 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic What is Orgasm? in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-is-orgasm/page/2/#post-10749 Sun, 19 Jul 2026 17:57:34 -0400 An orgasm is the body’s experience of bliss. It is a temporary cessation of any other focus in life except for bliss.

]]> 0 195fcf7733a59d9bf6682fecf8befad8 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Lack of Clitoris Education and Sexual Repression in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/clitoris-education-and-sexual-repression/page/2/#post-10740 Thu, 09 Jul 2026 19:35:35 -0400 <p class=”p1″>The insidious and oppressive reinforcement of religious and patriarchal propaganda upon all humans, but especially women continue to this day to reinforce women’s weakness because the truth is that there is more power to be found in our bodies, are sexuality our capacity to create to experience pleasure than the society of men will e…Read more

]]> 0 a7310e2a7e9ec5239f77aff9e26f0c51 Megan Gilron replied to the topic The Clitoris Bodysex Core Belief in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-clitoris-bodysex-core-belief/page/2/#post-10738 Thu, 09 Jul 2026 19:26:13 -0400 <p class=”p1″>The clitoris is a concentrated organ of erectile tissue and nerve pathways that embrace the vaginal opening and some of the vaginal canal and the nerves expand into the mucus membrane of the inner and outer labia, perineum and anus. Intense pleasure that can cause multiple orgasms and female ejaculation all stem from stimulation of…Read more

]]> 0 9fd8150534d1c902cc6327617fa8779f Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic What Women Should Know in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-women-should-know/page/2/#post-10737 Mon, 06 Jul 2026 23:43:48 -0400 I am fascinated by the urethral sponge and the periurethral glands. Learning about these parts of my anatomy has helped me to understand why arousal and the feeling of urination are so linked. And that these sensations can be worked with to increase pleasure, together with the clitoris and clitoral bulb. The periurethral glands are an amazing…Read more

]]> 0 95a96fd0fda864403cd56673dcb96806 Kirste Carlson replied to the topic Your vulva Smell and Taste in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-vulva-smell-and-taste/page/2/#post-10734 Sat, 04 Jul 2026 22:23:01 -0400 Currently taste seems negligible occasionally salty but never sweet. Historically I’ve paid way more attention to smell ever since I had a hemophilias infection and the smell was so bad (like a dead thing!) that I wanted to be vigilant about never experiencing that again.

]]> 0 f093e4f1e908b22170ee6628aaf5967d Kirste Carlson replied to the topic Finger Strokes and Massage Techniques in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/finger-strokes-and-massage-techniques/page/2/#post-10733 Fri, 03 Jul 2026 16:43:21 -0400 I used my fingers almost exclusively when I was in my teens and 20s. We didn’t have the vibes so available, at least I didn’t. As a married woman up until body sex I didn’t masturbate much at all. I guess I missed out on a lot of pleasure I could’ve had but oh well better late than never! now I’m trying a lot of things techniques, etc. because o…Read more

]]> 0 1e8b9025ce9f1dfa0a2e5e94e2589a8a Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Your Dream for Girls/Women to Access Information in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-dream-for-girls-women-to-access-information/page/2/#post-10732 Thu, 02 Jul 2026 17:07:05 -0400 My wish is that there would be community support for masturbation and sexual education. That there would be more than one place to learn about sexuality, anatomy, pleasure, conception and birth, and birth control. Information about masturbation, orgasm, and contraception would be routinely taught in schools and discussed with medical and…Read more

]]> 0 98f01c72880160a7bbbbf8365725153c Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Why is It Liberating? in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/why-is-it-liberating/page/2/#post-10731 Thu, 02 Jul 2026 10:53:52 -0400 It decenters the idea that pleasure comes to a woman from an external source – a penis, a lover, some external force— and gives women the knowledge that they need to explore their own complex pleasure system. It helps to create a map of sensations when you have an understanding of the parts or aspects of your anatomy. It decreases confusion and t…Read more

]]> 0 e08474726f27f163d3defc5a52351dbc Megan Gilron replied to the topic An Experience that Made You Smile or Cheer in the forum Sex by Design: The Betty Dodson Story https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/an-experience-that-made-you-smile-or-cheer/page/2/#post-10726 Tue, 30 Jun 2026 12:20:35 -0400 I truly cheered for Betty when she was in the thick of her sexual explorations, travelling to Europe, being wooed and seduced by wealthy lovers and group sex parties expanding her expression, playing with all genders and the feeling of “rightness” that I share with her, being in naked and sexual spaces. Full embodiment, joy and pleasure that she…Read more

]]> 0 2b19527c84ad5423a4026270a2e4dbfb Megan Gilron replied to the topic A Chapter that Stands Out for You in the forum Sex by Design: The Betty Dodson Story https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/chapter-that-stands-out-for-you/page/2/#post-10725 Tue, 30 Jun 2026 12:15:42 -0400 <p class=”p1″>There are so many chapters of this book that delight me and I come back to: when Betty goes through her celibate priestess phase writing Liberating Masturbation in LA, when she attend the gay men’s bathhouse (a personal fantasy), but one I recall the best and holds several opposing elements at once is when she goes back to Kansas and…Read more

]]> 0 0096caab53455630294873ab091b8984 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Share One Favorite Quote in the forum Sex by Design: The Betty Dodson Story https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-one-favorite-quote/page/2/#post-10724 Tue, 30 Jun 2026 12:13:51 -0400 I squealed out loud at this one “What a year it had been! I’d gone from being a sexually frustrated monogamous wife to becoming an independent sex adventurer – a sexual anthropologist of sorts.”

I loved this and was delighted because this is also a term I’ve self identified with before I knew that she had as well.

I have always felt such a…Read more

]]> 0 65d1ee63949e81a47add2918e5639d62 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Lack of Clitoris Education and Sexual Repression in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/clitoris-education-and-sexual-repression/page/2/#post-10723 Sun, 28 Jun 2026 18:00:06 -0400 It maintains a status quo where power is in the hands of everyone but the clitoris owner– the medical system, the patriarchy, educational system, the government (writ large), our sexual partners. When we don’t know that we have resources, we are compromised as a default position. And even when we do experience pleasure through our clitorises, we…Read more

]]> 0 1aa1b185cefccb4ce2a04f1ba3db9960 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic The Clitoris Bodysex Core Belief in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-clitoris-bodysex-core-belief/page/2/#post-10722 Sun, 28 Jun 2026 17:55:23 -0400 <p class=”p1″>The clitoris is not in the brain, it is in the body, located in your vulva. (The vagina is something else, the canal leading to the uterus.) It is an analogue to the penis, but much more sensitive. Your body has the most intricate organ for pleasure in the human organism, containing up to 10,000 nerve endings. These nerve endings…Read more

]]> 0 07b35f09850a060cb02f950e14856222 Kirste Carlson replied to the topic Vulva Massage as a Practice in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vulva-massage-as-a-practice/page/2/#post-10721 Sun, 28 Jun 2026 01:43:11 -0400 Whenever I have taken the time and trusted the process of vulva massage I have never had regrets or been disappointed. I’ve done this particular exercise before. Ditto to what other students have said about Carlin’s voice and leads. I have thought, but never would have mentioned these feelings. I’m looking forward to being able to devote time…Read more

]]> 0 685eccba2c7224924601c81f6eb68eae Kirste Carlson replied to the topic Experience with Vulva Massage Activity in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-vulva-massage-activity/page/2/#post-10720 Sun, 28 Jun 2026 01:27:56 -0400 Getting more practice and more comfortable with the vulva massage but was having trouble making private time for me. I finally have talked with my partner and I’m going to get some time in the house alone some mornings that will be my time for me. I’m looking forward to getting some sort of a regular cadence going.

]]> 0 b4abbe7a47a4faa64ac37bb2e72fb26d Megan Gilron replied to the topic Touch, Taste, Smell Vulva in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/release-experience-attitude-emotion/#post-10715 Tue, 23 Jun 2026 16:12:52 -0400 <p class=”p1″>Because I started out my masturbation as a child with humping a teddy bear and then a macrame blanket well into my teens, touching myself was initially uncomfortable because I didn’t like the idea of my hands getting wet or sticky. It’s a strange thing to recall back on, because now I love touching my vulva. Giving her massage, sni…Read more

]]> 0 8035ab748e1edfc26874c6da9bda33af Megan Gilron replied to the topic Your vulva Smell and Taste in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-vulva-smell-and-taste/page/2/#post-10713 Tue, 23 Jun 2026 15:57:48 -0400 <p class=”p1″>Today she’s smelling musky, tangy and tastes a bit salty and umami flavour. Somedays I’m no addicted to the smell and whish i could bottle it up and make millions. I especially find it fun and funny when it smells a biut like freshly sharpened lead pencil. The tasete doesn’t change too much, mostly the tangy salty flavour, somet…Read more

]]> 0 b8d7be399e69419f687e13b126027bf5 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Finger Strokes and Massage Techniques in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/finger-strokes-and-massage-techniques/page/2/#post-10711 Tue, 23 Jun 2026 14:34:57 -0400 <p class=”p1″>I enjoy patting and grinding my palm and the heel of my hand up and down over the outer labia. I like stroking my middle two fingers up and down my inner labia with oil and building up tension. I will include stroking my perineum and my anus and bringing long loop circles up and around my clitoris and down again. My favourite thing…Read more

]]> 0 d49cb4feedfc4f7fff19459904ca21d4 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Vulva Massage as a Practice in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vulva-massage-as-a-practice/page/2/#post-10709 Tue, 23 Jun 2026 14:13:40 -0400 <p class=”p1″>I have been practising vulva massage and intentional masturbation for most of my life, but the inclusion of Bodysex and the energy of sacred sensuality gives me so much more fulfilment when I prioritize making it a part of my self-love practice. Personally, I am a sex witch, and I deeply value the spiritual and somatic connection…Read more

]]> 0 66d806f42bbc306e6932d57e1b795438 Megan Gilron replied to the topic Experience with Vulva Massage Activity in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-vulva-massage-activity/page/2/#post-10707 Tue, 23 Jun 2026 14:06:30 -0400 <p class=”p1″>I love the process of being talked through my self-pleasure. I’ve subscribed to a few audio erotica and meditation apps that have really supported my sensual exploration in recent years, and this recording supported me in a very similar way. It’s very supportive for me to have outside structure that allows me to take away the res…Read more

]]> 0 c83d5b5db63f56f5598c15ecd082a96e Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Share One Favorite Quote in the forum Sex by Design: The Betty Dodson Story https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-one-favorite-quote/page/2/#post-10703 Mon, 22 Jun 2026 20:42:47 -0400 I loved this quote from the chapter Gay Heaven: “Anonymous sex could be so special— it was sex without the ego— the opposite of star fucking, power fucking, or romantic fucking. In many ways there was a high degree of unconditional love involved that was spiritual— an amazing degree of acceptance about myself and other people without judgments.”

]]> 0 7031a945bf8a3ee34bac6af723746819 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic An Experience that Made You Smile or Cheer in the forum Sex by Design: The Betty Dodson Story https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/an-experience-that-made-you-smile-or-cheer/page/2/#post-10702 Mon, 22 Jun 2026 20:38:57 -0400 I was cheering for her when she defended her friends to the FBI agents and even praised her friend’s skills as a lover. I can’t imagine myself ever having the courage to do something like that while being questioned by “the authorities.” And then having to endure wire tapping of her phone with such humor and grace was even more inspiring. It help…Read more

]]> 0 54aadd57e02220b57629796b5de37d30 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic A Chapter that Stands Out for You in the forum Sex by Design: The Betty Dodson Story https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/chapter-that-stands-out-for-you/page/2/#post-10701 Mon, 22 Jun 2026 20:33:04 -0400 The chapter that stood out the most to me was “Wichita’s Deadly Rapist.” Her self-mastery is so evident in this chapter. The way she meditates with her fears, calls on her spiritual protectors, and then also knows how to completely master a terrifying situation of sex with a voyeur. Wow! I have read this chapter a couple of times now. I also love…Read more

]]> 0 81b51ec6d695dfd97a96148cd5862e7b Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Touch, Taste, Smell Vulva in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/release-experience-attitude-emotion/#post-10697 Wed, 17 Jun 2026 00:53:14 -0400 Once I had a boyfriend who told me I didn’t taste as good as his girlfriend back home in Italy, which has put me off the taste of my vulva for decades. I’ve always wondered, what was wrong with it? Now that I have been consistently tasting my vulva for this module, I realize that nothing was ever wrong.

I have been touching my vulva for a long…Read more

]]> 0 d903039e01c0a58aae064cdf243468c3 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Your vulva Smell and Taste in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-vulva-smell-and-taste/#post-10696 Wed, 17 Jun 2026 00:42:48 -0400 The smell seems to change more than the taste, which is consistently salty. I’m wondering if the smell is affected by lubricants and creams. But generally, it is pungent and doughy.

]]> 0 8f1a6e2685a300f4b7bc80a8da68ecc6 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Finger Strokes and Massage Techniques in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/finger-strokes-and-massage-techniques/page/2/#post-10693 Mon, 08 Jun 2026 17:42:16 -0400 Starting with cupping my vulva helps me to slow down and honor her before anything else. I like to move from the outside in— the inguinal crease, the outer labia (stroking and tapping) and then when I am ready to be closer to penetration I work with the legs of the clitoral bulb, seeing which side is more sensitive or aroused (usually the left). I…Read more

]]> 0 bf94ef2bfbdeb76f5ba4acb885610939 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Vulva Massage as a Practice in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vulva-massage-as-a-practice/#post-10692 Sun, 07 Jun 2026 17:32:55 -0400 I am new to vulva massage and I think I will try to add it into my morning routine. Even just a few days a week would make a huge difference. I usually masturbate standing up, so the vulva massage seems like a different way to relax and connect with my body without the goal of orgasm or meditation. My masturbation practice is quite vigorous and…Read more

]]> 0 1f77d447b5edbf16f12d11c2021179ae Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Experience with Vulva Massage Activity in the forum Module 5: Vulva Massage https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-vulva-massage-activity/#post-10691 Sun, 07 Jun 2026 17:27:39 -0400 Carlin’s voice and instruction were very soothing and helped me to stay with the experience. I would have stopped or moved onto orgasm way earlier if it weren’t for trying to follow along. I chose to do the massage while I am menstruating (for the first time in months) and with a mirror. It was an added challenge to stay with the visual of the blo…Read more

]]> 0 0a6627f11901f604189892a2efe34f6c Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Effects of Vulva Sharing and Celebration in the forum Module 4: Vulva Appreciation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/effects-of-vulva-sharing-and-celebration/#post-10687 Sun, 07 Jun 2026 00:52:04 -0400 I think the word that comes to mind about vulva sharing and inspiration is wellspring. It returns women to their natural joy and power. It inspires creativity, connection, and love. It brings meaning back into our lives and pleasure into our bodies.

I loved how the Viva La Vulva video framed the vulva as a work of art and how much creative and…Read more

]]> 0 74863d0696423e5649cca013059c044c Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Attitudes, Feelings, Beliefs About Vulvas in the forum Module 4: Vulva Appreciation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/attitudes-feelings-beliefs-about-vulvas/page/2/#post-10686 Sun, 07 Jun 2026 00:47:12 -0400 As I reflect on what I’ve learned, I’m confronted with how embarrassed I’ve been about my vulva for most of my life. So many secretions, folds, and crevices. How difficult it was for men to relate to my vulva and appreciate her. Now I see that that was because *I* couldn’t relate to my vulva, appreciate her uniqueness, and be comfortable with wh…Read more

]]> 0 8c35433a70e6e68286070a1169d88a72 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Myths About the Hymen and Virginity in the forum Module 4: Vulva Appreciation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/myths-about-the-hymen-and-virginity/page/2/#post-10685 Sun, 07 Jun 2026 00:38:38 -0400 To answer this question, I decided to go back to the Greek origin of the word.

The word hymen means thin skin or membrane in Greek and there was a god Hymenaeus who was the son of Apollo and a nymph. In myth, he was a protector of maidens who celebrated him in their wedding songs. He seems something like a beautiful, delicate god of love. There…Read more

]]> 0 13a5185816f9fa4f4e489b82ae0b5a58 SoulFlower's profile was updated https://education.bodysex.com/activity/p/2323/ Sat, 06 Jun 2026 21:18:57 -0400 0 c520cae11b54badeab37e8f0a213fd13 Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic Your Genital Show and Tell in the forum Module 4: Vulva Appreciation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-genital-show-and-tell/page/2/#post-10684 Sat, 06 Jun 2026 18:40:08 -0400 Carlin’s audio guidance was very supportive and helped me to relax and get into the process. I experienced “I wish I had done this sooner” sadness, but then I remembered that many women never get to appreciate their vulvas.

My vulva is long and narrow. I am a short person but I feel like I have a tall vulva! I realized that the length and size of…Read more

]]> 0 59bf7c3024ed5ee4ea974022d27ba63f Jenny Kellogg replied to the topic First Time You Looked at Your Genitals in the forum Module 4: Vulva Appreciation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/first-time-looking-at-your-genitals/page/2/#post-10683 Sat, 06 Jun 2026 18:28:04 -0400 I remember looking and talking about it in the bathtub around age 3 or 4. I had a surgery scar near my vulva that I remember talking about it often. Then again around age 12, but not really very thoroughly. Over the years I have to overcome the shame of my pubic hair to even get to looking at my vulva. I do remember times with a mirror when I got…Read more

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