My favorite sex toy is the Eroscillator vibrator with the marshmallow tip attachment. The magic wand is too heavy for me and the surface area of the head is too big. It tends to numb me out very quickly. The head of the eroscillator is small and is more rumbly than the wand. I can easily hold it with one hand for long periods of time. I typically use the eroscillator along with Betty’s barbell and a silicone butt plug.