As I’m keen to explore my sexuality with woman sexually without becoming romantic, much like Sheila and Betty, chapter 16 Feminist Fuck Buddies- resonates with me and still to this day is an unexplored territory for many of us women. She’s so committed to doing what’s right for her as is Sheila. I left feeling…If they can do it so can I, but when and how I don’t know. I feel like Betty is telling me it all matters, it all exists, its all possible and fuck those that try to suppress or judge what makes you feel good. She’s enlivening agency in me to believe I can meet my own sexual curiosity and develop a bound with a woman who shares me view and approach to being fuck buddies without the romantic love.