My fav sex toy is the barbell, and I use a simple vibrator for clit stem which has loads of modes but I only use 3 out the 10 modes of vibration. I like pulsing the barbell and increasing the pressure inside my vagina against my urethral sponge. I would love to move onto the Hitachi wand but annoyingly it broke after it’s first use. So I need get that fixed or buy a new one. My desire is to get a nice dildo and strap on and Im easing my way into anal play.