Chapter 11 – Especially for Men
This chapter is full of insights about how to become a great and supportive lovers that would benefit equally men and women to read. I have been lucky to have such a person in my early sex history during my teen and now with my current lover. Men open to learn about how to improve their technique and skills are always welcomed into a hetero woman’s life. There is so much work to do though to incite men to raise their standard higher…
“When you base your self-esteem on being the only legitimate source of her sexual pleasure, you unknowingly set up one of the biggest barriers to becoming a world-class lover. Encouraging your girlfriend or wife to be part of the sexual dance by taking control of her own clitoral stimulation is the biggest step any man can take toward creating sexual equality.” (158)