I love all the chapters as they each offer very direct insight and guidance. However I think as a Bodysex leader, I would like to really embody the knowledge or chapter 10, I feel a lot of women like Betty shared can enjoy sex the way the want it if they are practising to express what they want and don’t like. Becoming familiar with all the positions and what they offer will give women insight into what to expect. Just because sex in one position wasn’t feel good doesn’t mean you need to right off having partner sex with that person… I feel including myself that I can get stuck in one position and not change it up because sometimes I’m worried I’ll ruin the mood. This chapter like the others reminds me throughout to seek what works for me. Communicate what works for me and or be vocal about what gets me HOT, and what you’d like to explore/
I can’t wait to try Betty’s FAV position, end of the bed vaginal pen, anal pen in doggy style with vibrator on clit and plenty of lube.
“In sex, changes made gradually usually work better than sudden shifts” -p137
There are so many profound and philosophical insights from Betty, this book is a real treasure.