My favourite sex toy is the magic wand and my silicone flesh like penis for penetration. I really like to do a hand vulva massage first as I like to connect and play with my vulva. Then I move to the magic wand on low and move it in circles around my vulva(usually more indirect clit stimulation) as my arousal increases, I like to take the flesh like penis and run it from the top of my clit down to vaginal opening several times while I have the magic wand stimulating clit (usually, more on the shaft), then when I really desire penetration I insert the silicone penis. And continue with the magic wand circling over my vulva. I also move the penis in and out slowly or what ever else feels good.