My husband and I always bring out the magic wand and a glass toy or three or he uses his hands with the vibration. This and the womanizer duo, which sucks my clit and vibrates into my g spot, bring me to delightful orgasms. I use the WD alone and consider it an internal massage. I can spend an hour with that toy and be completely delighted with the experience and delightful feelings it brings me. I also like thrusting toys for when I am alone for the feeling of penetration. I have toys for different feelings and encourage all sexes to explore and enjoy.