Again, I don’t know if it was in a video or in the book… but “RUN THE FCUK!” as an instruction for women having partner sex with men. I love this! I say it to women of all ages… learn what turns you on and then let your partner know what you do or don’t like as it happens, before or after…
I’m conscious it can sound like the notion of “Run the fcuk away!” So I add… be in charge of getting what you want.
Even feeling as empowered as I do, I know I am still getting myself in situations that I’m not really into, that I rush into… perhaps driven by a fear of missing out… I have a much easier time of getting my priorities right when it’s just me to consider… and yet get side tracked by wanting sex cos of the validation it provides.
And I’m much more likely to agree to something when it’s been difficult to arrange. More so if there’s someone I like who wants a particular experience – or when I want a particular experience… so I still have a ways to go to truly run The Fuck from the start to wherever and whenever the end comes.
