On page 61 Betty talks about jealousy and using pleasure to get through jealousy. I never thought this would work but wholly shit, I realized most of my resentments I held were rooted in jealousy of what my husband or men more easily come by in sexual beliefs, sexual actions, sexuality in society etc and once I realized I could harness my pleasure to help get over jealousy and heal it I felt so much more whole and happy equalizing things for myself.