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Oh i really love the whole book, great to have it in my repertoire of must read books. As I am in long term relationship, it was really very interesting for me to read it and hear Betty hints and tips for happy relationship. And she is so right in almost all her observation, I like that everything she describes is based on her own massive experience. Few insights which i also find to be true in my relationship and make us a happy couple:
I like the chapter of Sharing masturbation – it really made a difference to my and us a couple relationship. I am fully with Betty sharing the word: ‘Share the good news with all of your close friends: Embracing masturbation is the foundation for mutitally orgasmic partnersx. That statement will at least start an interesting conversation, I promise’ – I have already started Betty, and it does make a difference. (page 107)
I also like her statement that ‘The electric vibrator is to woman what Viagra is to men’ (page 118). It gives new, interesting perspective on vibrator role. I have never thought of it this way:)
I love the whole chapter dedicated to men with must have skills to become World Class Lover – I was happy that we (together with my partner) are already familiar with most of them. This has to be spread out to the world! (page 143)
And I love her calling at the end of the book: ‘If you are friend of sex who would like to take a stand for pleasure, start today by enjoying your own selfloving sessions without any guilt or apology . Telling your friends about your favourite masturbation or partnersex techniques with a descriptoin of one of your better orgasms qualify you as budding sexual activist in my book.’ Yes yes yes – only now I have realization that I am a sexual activist and I love it. Here we come Betty!