I truly cheered for Betty when she was in the thick of her sexual explorations, travelling to Europe, being wooed and seduced by wealthy lovers and group sex parties expanding her expression, playing with all genders and the feeling of “rightness” that I share with her, being in naked and sexual spaces. Full embodiment, joy and pleasure that she was experiencing was intensely palpable and I mourn for folks who will never get to experience that kind of freedom. She lived clit to the wall and inspired all of us to join her in the hedonistic ritual of life.