Bodysex Education | Laura Bogush | Friends Activity https://education.bodysex.com/members/admin/activity/friends/ Activity feed for Laura Bogush's friends. Sun, 12 Apr 2026 12:53:22 -0400 https://buddypress.org/?v= en 30 hourly 2 e5d43d719b707266d6d0ea6d2fa97e82 Lakota replied to the topic Let's Chat About Lube in the forum Toys & Accessories https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/lets-chat-about-lube/#post-5056 Tue, 25 Jul 2023 00:11:30 -0400 I love Sliquid Lube, I use their water base lube right now and have been trying to babystep my vulva and vaginal microbiome into using oil, because I’d like to use a lube I didn’t have to apply so often but I usually get itchy the next day with oil lube.

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]]> 0 709c083e8b7291337f754de0ec578ea9 Lakota replied to the topic What's your favorite sex-related documentary? in the forum Sex in the Media https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/whats-your-favorite-sex-related-documentary/#post-5055 Tue, 25 Jul 2023 00:07:57 -0400 hmm besides the Bodysex Goop episode!?!?!

I recently watched Pretty Baby and while its tragic, it was really eye opening to see how society and the media completely turned on women who were beginning to own their bodies and sexuality by saying fine “little girls are the new thing”.

]]> 0 2a2626c424f2fd95eaad53c65e9bc22a Lakota replied to the topic Period Tips and Hacks in the forum Menstruation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/period-tips-and-hacks/#post-5053 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 23:54:14 -0400 I just recently bought a cycle tracking book and I’m really hoping that helps me really tune in and pay attention to what my body needs and wants during my cycle.

I always make sure that I have chocolate on hand and a salty snack! And more than one size menstrual cup, I bleed really heavy on my second day so having a big cup for that day is a…Read more

]]> 0 ab70bbd6bf95b4864f49dcc7403f0ec6 Lakota replied to the topic What is your masturbation practice? in the forum Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-is-your-masturbation-practice/#post-5051 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 23:49:33 -0400 I like to masturbate either early in the morning, before I’ve gotten out of bed or more frequently at night once the kids are asleep, and I can wind down and relax and take my time uninterrupted.

]]> 0 585fc9c8a35cfafa28961f16dfe77083 Lakota replied to the topic Stuck in a masturbation rut in the forum Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stuck-in-a-masturbation-rut/#post-5050 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 23:48:20 -0400 I think my impatience can sometimes pull the wool over my eyes so to speak and make me think my masturbation routine is boring, but usually I notice that really, I’m just rushing. Ive also noticed that whenever I get bored of erotica reading or porn, If instead I I take the time to go within my body and my own fantasies like a meditation I get…Read more

]]> 0 11215703c91e79fc8612005d18e237a5 Lakota replied to the topic What is your favorite masturbation technique? in the forum Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-is-your-favorite-masturbation-technique/#post-5049 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 23:44:02 -0400 I think for me this will be ever changing but currently my go to is the rock n roll, although I do have to remind myself of the relaxing part pretty often. I like laying my back and using a stainless steel dildo for penetration and the magic wand with my other hand for clitoral stimulation. I would like to put some more time and energy into the…Read more

]]> 0 1312f2fceb8723e21285d69d382ff363 Lakota replied to the topic An Experience when You Stood Up for Yourself in the forum Feminism https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/an-experience-when-you-stood-up-for-yourself/#post-5048 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 23:40:07 -0400 For a few years we had a friend that was very needy and snarky when needs weren’t met, I allowed the friendship and his behavior to continue for 3 years before I finally decided I wasn’t allowing it anymore and I stopped all contact with him and told him I just couldn’t do it anymore, and that I also didn’t need to explain myself (as I had so many…Read more

]]> 0 24668786f48bd3bbda34eb133d9b3130 Lakota replied to the topic Share a Fantasy in the forum Erotica and Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-a-fantasy/#post-5047 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 23:35:29 -0400 My favorite fantasy theme as of lately is just wild driven lust. Thinking about guys putting their penis in things that looks like they’d feel good and masturbating with those things. I love thinking about men being so turned on they masturbate anywhere especially naughty places like dressing rooms, or public transport. Im not really sure what the…Read more

]]> 0 1827589de30f6dcedd999e4788240880 Lakota replied to the topic A Memorable Bodysex Workshop Moment in the forum Bodysex Workshops, Rituals, and Practices https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/a-memorable-bodysex-workshop-moment/#post-5046 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 20:52:07 -0400 One really meaningful moment I had within a bodysex circle was at my first circle. Even though orgasm isn’t the goal of erotic recess, I was so nervous that I would not have an orgasm during. I remember Carlin was going around the circle and helping women who needed or wanted support and she was on the other side of the room. instead of waiting…Read more

]]> 0 59b42c325d56334a7b2d3cba1f184c3f Lakota replied to the topic How did you discover Bodysex? in the forum Bodysex Workshops, Rituals, and Practices https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-bodysex/#post-5045 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 20:39:12 -0400 I found Bodysex through a book called becoming literate that was suggested to me by my therapist, in that book they mentioned a few sources for self pleasure and Bodysex was the most in depth, thorough and “actually physical with your own body” source there was. So I kept exploring the site over and over again until I was ready to take the plunge…Read more

]]> 0 19435fbf8a6e905d4078e92526a8e95d Lakota replied to the topic What birth control method do you use? in the forum Birth Control and Abortion https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-birth-control-method-do-you-use/#post-5043 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 20:34:53 -0400 Ive used a few over the years, condoms being the longest practiced method. I had a brief period with a diaphragm before my husband got a vasectomy and now that vasectomy is my main form of birth control since we are currently monogamous.

]]> 0 1ae336f88d6e18f5de10a8d2925b9299 Lakota replied to the topic What's your favorite quote from Betty? in the forum Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/whats-your-favorite-quote-from-betty/#post-5042 Mon, 24 Jul 2023 20:32:30 -0400 My favorite Betty Dodson quote is “Sometimes the fucking you get, isn’t worth the fucking you get” Even thought this one is funny, I think it also really sheds light on the really crappy situation women can find themselves in if they aren’t self pleasuring. When you know and honor your own pleasure you don’t put up with as much, because you have…Read more

]]> 0 04c3deb07c8be7daae7489714c6d824e Lakota replied to the topic Introduce Yourself in the forum Please Start Here https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/introduce-yourself-2/#post-4966 Thu, 13 Jul 2023 22:57:20 -0400 Hi, everyone!

My name is Lakota. I’m 32. I am ‘mama’ to three little ones and live with them and my husband in Michigan (USA).

I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom for most of my adult life since I was 19 years old. I have always been creative and a jack of all trades throughout my life but I didn’t find my true hearts calling to…Read more

]]> 0 a41f41cd4c6534626715590a644047fd Lakota replied to the topic Something to Experience/Explore in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-to-experience-explore/#post-4590 Mon, 29 May 2023 04:00:41 -0400 I really would like to go to a professional bdsm club and experience what it’s like to negotiate a situation, and also to experience some. Maybe submission, dominance, or any other types of stuff going on! I don’t know if I’ll know my hard “no” situations until I see them. So for now a lot is just maybe!

]]> 0 baf173554d31838c4036d551a1ef6511 Lakota replied to the topic Judgement Experience in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/judgement-experience/#post-4589 Mon, 29 May 2023 03:58:39 -0400 I have spent my entire life judging myself sexually and it wasn’t until bodysex that I noticed I was doing it and stopped. Whether that judgement being on my sexual fantasies, or my libido there was always somewhere for a mean doubtful voice to exist. I’m thankful for all that Betty learned about herself and women so that everyone can unlearn the…Read more

]]> 0 c88901733a4b8060628bef250e1f4256 Lakota replied to the topic Sex Work: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-experience-attitude-emotion/#post-4588 Mon, 29 May 2023 03:54:44 -0400 I just want to state maybe uncommon but true things that I believe now that I didn’t when I was a kid. Sex work does not have to be on anyone else’s terms but the sex workers. A sex worker can fully articulate exactly what she wants or does not want to do and what feels past her limitations. It isn’t a desperate place to be, for some it’s a total…Read more

]]> 0 36fa57563e80c9c65bbf46896f1347ee Lakota replied to the topic Sex Work: Something that Stood Out in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-something-that-stood-out/#post-4587 Mon, 29 May 2023 03:48:30 -0400 I love when Betty said “a wife sells her body while a sex worker only rents it out” it totally encompasses the sexual trade we as women have done for years for security, stability, status, and companionship. It really show cases that both women have sold themselves out but one has done it on her own terms and one hasn’t, at least maybe not consc…Read more

]]> 0 9ef3b0a650fd9349bcc59ef321edf15b Lakota replied to the topic Myth About Kink/BDSM in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/myth-about-kink-bdsm/#post-4586 Mon, 29 May 2023 03:08:18 -0400 A common misconception that is held is that people who enjoy kink are sexually dysfunctional. If anything I think people who enjoy kink are more sexually functional and healthy well than most as they communicate more thoroughly and really emphasize consent and after care with eachother.

]]> 0 19b807ed3ed0fe90f5b33d7f2f504827 Lakota replied to the topic Kink/BDSM Activity in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/kink-bdsm-activity/#post-4585 Mon, 29 May 2023 03:01:51 -0400 Bdsm and kink have always greatly intrigued me, I’ve always wanted to submerse my head and learn more about what people like and why. Just total curiosity for the entire community and experiences. As for things I’d like to experience myself i think I’m interested in being dominated like someone holding out orgasms from me until I can’t stand i…Read more

]]> 0 3a29f8c288f046010b1f874cf777cd06 Lakota replied to the topic Share Your Experience with Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-your-experience-with-tantra/#post-4584 Mon, 29 May 2023 01:37:13 -0400 I don’t have any experience with tantra.

]]> 0 4309321eca24b6e4105b24a270d4220b Lakota replied to the topic Barbara Carrellas and Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/barbara-carrellas-and-tantra/#post-4583 Mon, 29 May 2023 01:32:53 -0400 When Barbara was talking about how fearful people are of breath and gave the elevator example of taking beep breaths and people wanting to get out and run, that really stuck with me because I think that’s true. People really are afraid of relaxing and letting go around others even as far as a joyful breath. Breath is a beautiful thing and always a…Read more

]]> 0 5cb1e3f747ebad53a403b0d2ffa10ca5 Lakota replied to the topic End Slut Stigma in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/end-slut-stigma/#post-4577 Sun, 28 May 2023 17:23:26 -0400 Have first time sex celebrations, talk openly about how many partners we’ve had, congratulate women for their sexual experiences and partner amounts.

]]> 0 582bf81738ea39570f65eb0458983bdd Lakota replied to the topic Slut Stigma and Repression in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/slut-stigma-and-repression/#post-4576 Sun, 28 May 2023 17:22:18 -0400 If women are afraid to be free sexual beings due to fear of being less than, or not accepted, they’ll never ever really truly find themselves or their enjoyment in sex. Also they will keep other women repressed and men as well. What they can’t have they won’t sit by and allow others to have which feeds the full sexual repression of an entire society.

]]> 0 d67dc2bd7b0a624ac15b17d03fe5e781 Lakota replied to the topic Orgasms with a Group in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasms-with-a-group/#post-4575 Sun, 28 May 2023 16:49:35 -0400 I have in bodysex! It was amazing for me to exist in a place where female sexuality but sexuality in general was being celebrated, I’ve always been a person who was terrified of PDA in public even because I was just raised to believe sex would be yucky or offensive for others to see. Having orgasms in a place where people everyone else was also d…Read more

]]> 0 6574cdde53ea19968ea683b0d5d99f3e Lakota replied to the topic New Relationship Awareness in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/new-relationship-awareness/#post-4574 Sun, 28 May 2023 15:16:38 -0400 The author of the ethical slut mentioning that opening needs to be for you, and realizing that when I do open my relationship i know and understand fully since I’ve found bodysex and my sexual equality that I will be doing it for myself. No one but me because I want more for me. It was also reassuring that she mentioned some wait until kids are o…Read more

]]> 0 5f38caef848c87ba22e4628ef193f9f6 Lakota replied to the topic The Ethical Slut in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-ethical-slut/#post-4573 Sun, 28 May 2023 15:13:09 -0400 I loved the part when she mentions the science behind our brain developing new pathways during our upset with jealousy and how we handle them! I think that’s so important to me because it helps me be more grateful for those emotions like jealousy that are so hard, I know that despite the difficulty I’m literally growing from the experience. In oth…Read more

]]> 0 75010f7b1c84f09cfb5b4caa2b861e0d Lakota replied to the topic Human Sexuality Misconception/Myth in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/human-sexuality-misconception-myth/#post-4552 Wed, 24 May 2023 15:51:12 -0400 One common held myth is that socially monogamous equals sexually monogamous. Seeing that in animals like moles from the video don’t even have even sexual monogamy is a huge idea! One that could revolutionize how we sexually interact as a society with eachother. Separating sexuality from ownership or possessiveness for everyone.

]]> 0 9789eff17457d6ebaac237ebacf1a4d4 Lakota replied to the topic Information from Leonard Shlain/Alphabet vs the Goddess in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-leonard-shlain-alphabet-vs-the-goddess/#post-4549 Wed, 24 May 2023 14:42:06 -0400 Something that stood out for me in alphabet vs goddess is all the info about how writing segregates our brains in a way, leading us to think in different ways that leave out huge key parts to our communication and understandings. Another part that stood out was that making images is a sin!? I never knew that but it makes so much sense in keeping…Read more

]]> 0 47de7a562dd25bf3b2320ea7e679c401 Lakota replied to the topic Information from Chris Ryan/Sex at Dawn in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-chris-ryan-sex-at-dawn/#post-4548 Wed, 24 May 2023 14:34:58 -0400 So many 5ings stood out for me in sex at dawn! I loved that interview and can’t wait to watch the monogomish documentary and read sex at dawn. The I love the he reiterates the importance of choosing monogamy but only if you fully educated on how difficult it will be as well as it not being our natural state as humans. The science about the b…Read more

]]> 0 6600c1bc3dd6700c2d1fba0d43245736 Lakota replied to the topic Change for Future Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/change-for-future-partner-sex/#post-4543 Mon, 22 May 2023 20:00:17 -0400 Something I want to change for future partner sex experiences is the amount that I outwardly request what I want and also how much time I spend touching myself first, connecting with me and my body beforehand.

]]> 0 a2befcb670dce6d6c367c76956884ec3 Lakota replied to the topic Something Learned About Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-sexual-orientation/#post-4517 Fri, 19 May 2023 14:02:10 -0400 Something I’ve learned about sexual orientation is that it really doesn’t matter and I feel more free when the doors are completely open and free without restraints both in my real life and fantasy! I feel more at ease not cowering away from any sexual experience.

]]> 0 575bdc5c212c9852773c8fc4dc1acbd3 Lakota replied to the topic Your Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-sexual-orientation/#post-4516 Fri, 19 May 2023 14:00:20 -0400 I would say primarily I’m attracted to men, but sometimes I see a more androgynous, or masculine presenting woman and totally feel attracted. I wanna have conversations and get to know them and all the same attraction feelings I get for men. I notice that i need a balance in my life for companionship. Most times my husband isn’t into doing all the…Read more

]]> 0 a180cdc4320e751686e1eeb993c1b5f6 Lakota replied to the topic Let's All Come Out! in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/lets-all-come-out/#post-4506 Thu, 18 May 2023 14:59:35 -0400 I would say my sex style is open. There are things that don’t really turn me on but I wouldn’t exclude from ever experiencing. Im not sure if there is anything I would hold back from describing or discussing to most but I do have really religious great aunts and uncle who I would be a little worried about telling about my fantasies with inv…Read more

]]> 0 60628c066d11d8820f61a8dd795919d8 Lakota replied to the topic "Inside Betty Dodson" Article in the Forum in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inside-betty-dodson-article-in-the-forum/#post-4505 Thu, 18 May 2023 14:56:44 -0400 Something that stood for me in the article was that Betty was so insightful to what she was exipircning even though no one in the world was really talking about the things she was noticing. She really discovered the oppression of wife for herself and figured out what she needed to break free from it. At the time she was in and even currently what…Read more

]]> 0 19897ff67ba0a7c09e7336cdbdae5d65 Lakota replied to the topic Chapter that Stands Out for You in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/chapter-that-stands-out-for-you-2/#post-4501 Thu, 18 May 2023 13:34:40 -0400 I would re read chapter 10 over and over again. I loved this chapter because for the first time the positions in a book are explained in what makes them great for both partners, how to add more pleasure for each partner and what different things you can do for mobility. I loved that there is an explanation to why it works for each partner. It…Read more

]]> 0 a5a0b6da2f25423857e5f57470726a57 Lakota replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out-2/#post-4500 Thu, 18 May 2023 13:29:04 -0400 On page 61 Betty talks about jealousy and using pleasure to get through jealousy. I never thought this would work but wholly shit, I realized most of my resentments I held were rooted in jealousy of what my husband or men more easily come by in sexual beliefs, sexual actions, sexuality in society etc and once I realized I could harness my pleasure…Read more

]]> 0 713273fe14bfa12d1f7cd74ca4fec236 Lakota replied to the topic Run the Fuck or Foreplay for Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/run-the-fuck-or-foreplay-for-masturbation/#post-4496 Thu, 18 May 2023 13:13:33 -0400 Run the fuck has been something that in part I always knew, I always climbed on top because I knew it worked for me but there was so much more to that saying I didn’t learn until later in life. Knowing what I wanted and telling others was a big one, knowing that I could say no that doesn’t work for me etc. run the fuck really means so so muc…Read more

]]> 0 e629c05b609b70a71e9137f3939457bc Lakota replied to the topic Partner Sex: Something Learned in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-something-learned/#post-4456 Mon, 15 May 2023 13:51:29 -0400 Something important I learned about partner sex is taking it out of the box of procreation and penis and vagina intercourse. Sex can be and mean so many things and there is no ultimate position/act. Each act could be ideal at any moment for any reason and putting labels like “best” or “perfect” on any act really downplays all the other amazing…Read more

]]> 0 451530e786e1cbac799016cfc1bd8c6e Lakota replied to the topic Birth Control: Attitude, Experience, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/birth-control-release-attitude-experience-emotion/#post-4455 Mon, 15 May 2023 13:22:06 -0400 I’d like to let go of the thought that birth control is the woman’s responsibility. I’m so thankful my husband took charge of his fertility for us as a couple.

]]> 0 e48d7ad905934a233743f82676c79bca Lakota replied to the topic Preferred Birth Control in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/preferred-birth-control/#post-4454 Mon, 15 May 2023 13:21:00 -0400 I was using condoms for ages because hormonal birth control didn’t work for me in my teens with weight gain and being an emotional rollercoaster etc. those started to really cramp our sexual lifestyle significantly and so we opted for a diaphragm for a short amount of time while my husband waited for his vasectomy. his vasectomy that has been o…Read more

]]> 0 88bbd332e215cade40e50d386de34783 Lakota replied to the topic "Must Have" Sex Skill/Practice in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/must-have-sex-skill-practice/#post-4453 Mon, 15 May 2023 12:42:01 -0400 Communication is a must have sex skill, communication helps build bonding but also helps each person get exactly what they want or need. Good Communication also helps build up a space where questions can be asked and answered about what might work better for each person.

]]> 0 c8239788fbee46770cc4b40733961d55 Lakota replied to the topic Something Learned about Partner Sex Skills in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-partner-sex-skills/#post-4452 Mon, 15 May 2023 12:39:58 -0400 Something new I learned was Carlin’s technique for giving a blowjob, but with a vibe on her clit. Whoa that made a blowjob wayyyy more hot and fun!!

]]> 0 0cf43a1c6746b1851c38683a2c1838ef Lakota replied to the topic Vibrator with Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vibrator-with-partner-sex/#post-4446 Sat, 13 May 2023 16:04:48 -0400 That teasing myself during penetrative partner sex with the vibrator is the best method, otherwise I press too hard and numb myself out.

]]> 0 d1ddfd1f09d99a133bcd32a86f5af32b Lakota replied to the topic Sex Position to Try in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-position-to-try/#post-4445 Sat, 13 May 2023 16:03:36 -0400 I’d like to try the right angle leg position because it seems like it would really sand which the vaginal walls and create more friction and sensation while still being able to access my clit.

]]> 0 62f313769bb6a0e01f0dcd6fc50926a4 Lakota replied to the topic Favorite Sex Position in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/favorite-sex-position/#post-4444 Sat, 13 May 2023 16:02:35 -0400 I love doggie style and it wasn’t until I got more comfortable touching my clit that liked it, because without clit stim it was only my husbands favorite and then once I got clit stim, I adore the position hahah

]]> 0 28a8d0ada51ac7fcb09307dd5e241210 Lakota replied to the topic Communication: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-attitude-emotion-communication/#post-4443 Sat, 13 May 2023 14:39:42 -0400 I deserve to have sexual preferences and it’s ok if they change from minute to minute. My sexual preferences are important and deserve attention and respect.

]]> 0 f77e22879dd9e62869b04275bb526c06 Lakota replied to the topic Sexual Preference Statements in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sexual-preference-statements/#post-4442 Sat, 13 May 2023 14:38:24 -0400 My statements would be,

sometimes I like to come with a vibrator and sometime I just like to grind on a dick while getting fingered I never know which preference I have until I’ve done a bit of both.

I really like to have more than one orgasm during sex and that could be done with sex or masturbation.

I really like doggy style sex.

]]> 0 af513d4272c6ab1b9883ab307bd2cdbc Lakota replied to the topic Communication Experience Share in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/communication-experience-share/#post-4441 Sat, 13 May 2023 14:35:21 -0400 When I was really young and experimenting I knew I had a firm boundary for doing penetrative sex. It was easy for me to say no regularly. But what I struggled with because I never had a conversation with my mom or anyone about oral and manual and what I should be expecting out of that, because those conversations never happened I was sort of in a…Read more

]]> 0 36663fbaba7e0d7e56dcc48d13cf5476 Lakota replied to the topic Partner Masturbation Plan in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-masturbation-plan/#post-4380 Sun, 07 May 2023 15:25:55 -0400 My husband and I have sort of implanted this already, we both have toys that we can watch each other play with, sometimes it’s side by side and watching porn together, sometimes it’s facing each other and other times I watch him from across the room! I love watching my husband fuck his silicone butt toy, or let his masturbation stroker milk him…Read more

]]> 0 b381046e713286c90ca8ac9e15504fce Lakota replied to the topic Experience with Partner Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-partner-masturbation/#post-4379 Sun, 07 May 2023 15:20:05 -0400 When I was younger and didn’t have a masturbation practice of my own my husband would ask to watch me masturbate and it became an entire faked situation, I emulated everything I saw on porn to be visually pleasing and I’d get bored and then we would have sex where I  had the orgasm. It was such a disconnected time for me. Now that I’ve reclai…Read more

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