Bodysex Education | Naomi Ruth | Activity https://education.bodysex.com/members/chouse1011/activity/ Activity feed for Naomi Ruth. Mon, 13 Apr 2026 14:39:45 -0400 https://buddypress.org/?v= en 30 hourly 2 245f233b79b63d498541f57264f78b44 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Judgement Experience in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/judgement-experience/#post-10493 Wed, 04 Feb 2026 01:45:20 -0500 Judged for being my most authentic self and judged for being my most authentic sexual self. I was judged/labeled as a child for masturbating so much (no one ever recognizing that it was a family member that had opened pandora’s box/introduced that feeling to those nerve endings). Then I was judged for being a loud and garish teenager without a…Read more

]]> 0 a52ee27671b9d64c34551c55000bbe3d Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Sex Work: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-experience-attitude-emotion/#post-10492 Tue, 03 Feb 2026 03:09:03 -0500 I agree with Betty and Carlin that if you are an adult woman, you should have the legal right to be a paid sex worker. It’s certainly not for everyone, but neither is any profession that exists.

]]> 0 0e6962ebb4fcc9de50c8f1cabd8eeff6 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Sex Work: Something that Stood Out in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-something-that-stood-out/#post-10491 Tue, 03 Feb 2026 03:05:22 -0500 The power of “Feminist Sex Advocate” – Betty seemed to accidentally coin the term in one of the videos with her and Carlin, but how true this title is! That’s what we are based on the drive we have to help and change. Even though I’m just at the start of my Bodysex coaching journey, I will be keeping this phrase in mind for a long time to come.

]]> 0 853bbe66fd1645ba91c44abe739eba49 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Myth About Kink/BDSM in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/myth-about-kink-bdsm/#post-10490 Tue, 03 Feb 2026 02:00:04 -0500 That all fetishes involve pain, torture, or some type of humiliation. There are plenty of kinks out there that are sensation based and don’t involve any type of pain or discomfort.

]]> 0 08b4dad2824433fee459488969372446 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Kink/BDSM Activity in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/kink-bdsm-activity/#post-10489 Tue, 03 Feb 2026 01:55:10 -0500 I started attending fetish parties (Alter Ego) back in 2009/10 and continued on for several years on occasion when I had to opportunity to be out for the evening. My favorite part about the parties was seeing how everyone dressed based on what they found to be a turn on and what their kink was. Plus, they typically would bring in some really…Read more

]]> 0 35b474b4d5b49d2af8c6cc8a7859c0a1 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Share Your Experience with Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-your-experience-with-tantra/#post-10487 Mon, 02 Feb 2026 01:42:00 -0500 I have not had prior experience with Tantra but feel I’ve been maybe doing it to a degree without labeling it. I am definitely interested in ordering Barbara’s books as resources and learning more.

]]> 0 a7df0c8fc4fef19c731e7119ac14eb65 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Barbara Carrellas and Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/barbara-carrellas-and-tantra/#post-10486 Mon, 02 Feb 2026 01:27:27 -0500 The correlation between what Barbara is saying and what I’ve been doing was eye opening. I have been doing much of this breath work and energy holding (I described it as a bowl of energy you’re holding in your lower abdomen). It was nice to hear- when you’re getting closer to the point of facilitating, you start to question, “I’m I ready for it an…Read more

]]> 0 24d7382c686e404b3bcf43d0a2f8e334 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic End Slut Stigma in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/end-slut-stigma/#post-10485 Sun, 01 Feb 2026 19:25:58 -0500 Education. Adults (parents, teachers, all those influential to growing and curious children) – if the adults are misguided by what was culturally and religiously imposed on them, most never relearn/correct their own thought process and prejudices, and therefore, repeat/pass down the same shaming cycle to the next generation. Access and exposure to…Read more

]]> 0 40ba5b946aba4138638fa6292d4e5530 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Slut Stigma and Repression in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/slut-stigma-and-repression/#post-10484 Sun, 01 Feb 2026 19:14:15 -0500 Guilt and shame are powerful manipulators, and unfortunately, girls/women are often the most easiest to make feel guilty and shameful. I think there are still a large number of parents who still guilt and shame their young daughters in hopes that somehow their criticism will “save her” from any sexual harm she might endure if’s she’s not ultra c…Read more

]]> 0 eadaea35156e0e51f54b4089475dd85c Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Orgasms with a Group in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasms-with-a-group/#post-10483 Sun, 01 Feb 2026 14:12:51 -0500 My experience with having orgasms in a group setting dates back to my childhood days when me and my girlfriends would take turns on the jets in my family’s swimming pool. Later in my adult life, there was a 6-month period of time where I was dating a couple (male and female) and the first night we had sex together was after a large fetish party a…Read more

]]> 0 f3db2bd62ca4f0ac662239d17d38eb4c Naomi Ruth replied to the topic New Relationship Awareness in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/new-relationship-awareness/#post-10481 Sat, 31 Jan 2026 23:08:52 -0500 Relationship status should be as open and fluid as sexual orientation. Like Betty said, “I am human and I am sexual.” I love that statement- it’s how I most fully see myself. Always there should be conversations with complete openness and disclosure within a committed relationship but realistically, no one can expect humans as sexual living being…Read more

]]> 0 fb2bfc36ce6b3c1259dfbb391bed2753 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic The Ethical Slut in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-ethical-slut/#post-10480 Sat, 31 Jan 2026 22:31:29 -0500 Like Emma, for me the piece that stood out the most was the 15 minute break during a heated argument. The science behind the chemistry change is fascinating but to reiterate, she does say to take a 15 minute break and basically do something that’s soothing in order to reset/rethink. But on the flip side, 15 minutes of stewing on the argument m…Read more

]]> 0 50e5961594afc5debd0461e97bc461a2 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Human Sexuality Misconception/Myth in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/human-sexuality-misconception-myth/#post-10475 Sun, 25 Jan 2026 21:01:13 -0500 The myth that human sexuality is only for procreation – I think I recall hearing humans have  sex about 1,000x per birth (even prior to contraception). Compared to other animals close to the human race, perhaps with the exception of the Bonobos, which is now my new answer for “If you could come back as an animal, which would you want to be?” 😄

]]> 0 7cae3e9f3964a5dbab879a5c364c8706 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Information from Leonard Shlain/Alphabet vs the Goddess in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-leonard-shlain-alphabet-vs-the-goddess/#post-10474 Sun, 25 Jan 2026 20:51:39 -0500 The influences from a handful of power hungry men have altered so much of who we were and could have been. Even the differences between the Old Testament and the New Testament. If another gender or color held significance, they were to be washed away. Not sure we’re currently too far off the same path, as much as we fight for change; but it’s som…Read more

]]> 0 1edd55c6a35994f3d995f3678aaf9d38 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Information from Chris Ryan/Sex at Dawn in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-chris-ryan-sex-at-dawn/#post-10473 Sun, 25 Jan 2026 20:15:31 -0500 I thought it was interesting how Chris pointed out that although Bonobos are just as close to us as Chimpanzees, only the Chimps are used as an example to show that it must be normal that we are violent because our closest relating apes are, as well. No one bothers to mention the Bonobos are just as close in likeness to humans and the sexually…Read more

]]> 0 90e1ec192a9d669433799c403e37c459 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Something Learned About Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-sexual-orientation/#post-10472 Sun, 25 Jan 2026 14:50:57 -0500 Sexual orientation is fluid and can change over the different phases of a person’s life. In general, I think most people who are sexual are actually bisexual, but only some are comfortable enough with it to be open about their attraction to and stimulation by both the opposite sex and same sex/gender.

]]> 0 a241301703e14540a8bbe419ba488980 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Your Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-sexual-orientation/#post-10471 Sun, 25 Jan 2026 14:43:32 -0500 I’ve been bisexual my entire life, leaning more towards men for an actual relationship but I can more visually attracted to women. I recall as a child finding a stack of both Playgirl and Penthouse/Hustler magazines under a neighbor’s bed (actually I think my sister found them and she told me where they were) – they belonged to a young adult wom…Read more

]]> 0 f2ebdce9194715ecc7d59d0a58d61862 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Let's All Come Out! in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/lets-all-come-out/#post-10470 Sun, 25 Jan 2026 01:24:15 -0500 I’m a female, bisexual/pansexual, sapiosexual enjoying a monogamous heterosexual marriage/relationship of nearly 10 years (this August). We enjoy being part of the lifestyle (swing) but our personal comfort level has remained only side by side play, soft play, voyeurism, and exhibitionism. We both appreciate the sexual connection we have and f…Read more

]]> 0 3f85e5ab9aa2bb16d017c3ee81dd0ba2 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic "Inside Betty Dodson" Article in the Forum in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inside-betty-dodson-article-in-the-forum/#post-10469 Sun, 25 Jan 2026 01:05:27 -0500 I thought it was sweet where Betty corrected the interviewer regarding her “bad marriage” in which she said no, they were rather sweet together- the struggle for her was monogamy and especially in a sexless marriage. She recognized the difference between the value of a relationship and what it still offered, a caring that existed even though it…Read more

]]> 0 b7c0e125a3e7ca1c14694146b0817211 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Chapter that Stands Out for You in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/chapter-that-stands-out-for-you-2/#post-10456 Sat, 24 Jan 2026 18:05:05 -0500 I feel like there are several chapters in Orgasms for Two that will be very resourceful to recall upon – the specific chapter for the specific area of focus/growth, and for both women and men.  One of my favorites was Chapter 6 with the description of the different types of orgasms a woman can have plus as mentioned in my prior answer, the very…Read more

]]> 0 693699a47720d725a84333fa709c64df Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out-2/#post-10455 Sat, 24 Jan 2026 17:54:15 -0500 The Autonomic Nervous System (pg 77-78)

I think out of everything Betty has written (that I’ve read so far), this portion explains best what an orgasm really is, how it is triggered, and how a woman can better support this natural nervous system reaction. I love how she explains, “I can’t will my body to come, just as I can’t make a decisio…Read more

]]> 0 fd3e6c8abd2f1758f9863bf45ecdec7b Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Change for Future Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/change-for-future-partner-sex/#post-10226 Mon, 29 Sep 2025 15:38:58 -0400 I get turned on by fantasizing group/circle masturbation with males and females for those that have achieved a certain masturbation comfort level. Still separate but together in the space, seeing each other and feeling the shared energy would be pretty awesome.

]]> 0 443e67b18ccc9b58f61df6f8cb771282 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Partner Sex: Something Learned in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-something-learned/#post-10225 Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:37:09 -0400 Open communication is key, whether it is your first intimate moment together or you’ve been committed for many years; but before that communication can begin, it’s important to spend time with yourself masturbating in order to learn what you like so you can relay that. Mutual masturbation is also constructive but in order for the outcome to be tru…Read more

]]> 0 5e4b23f4c7b06d698d37a4ff93615e1c Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Birth Control: Attitude, Experience, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/birth-control-release-attitude-experience-emotion/#post-10224 Sun, 28 Sep 2025 16:56:44 -0400 I think it makes sense to use condoms unless you are in a fluid bonded relationship but otherwise, I think it’s a woman’s choice to decide the type of birth control is best for her.

]]> 0 aae3d475811f5ea2fcc82d2a80a5377d Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Preferred Birth Control in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/preferred-birth-control/#post-10223 Sun, 28 Sep 2025 16:50:37 -0400 I went on the pill once I became sexually active as a teen but it was really terrible for me that initial week after my cycle — it gave me morning sickness and like clockwork, something as simple as brushing my teeth would trigger me and every morning, I would throw up. Even with this, I stayed on it for years. Also used condoms and with my f…Read more

]]> 0 b175e711137fce68f63688ad4482f3dc Naomi Ruth replied to the topic "Must Have" Sex Skill/Practice in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/must-have-sex-skill-practice/#post-10222 Thu, 25 Sep 2025 00:30:36 -0400 Focus and attention—as long as my partner is paying attention to my response/feedback, I feel like a good time can always be had no matter the direction it takes us.

]]> 0 9496ca2550281bddc68e6dc6f683fcb9 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Something Learned about Partner Sex Skills in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-partner-sex-skills/#post-10221 Thu, 25 Sep 2025 00:27:55 -0400 I don’t think I’ve ever tried a vibrator on my clit while giving a blowjob. Prior, I think I would have filed it under “Multitasking” but I can see the enticement now.

]]> 0 b8090b0bc2ce654376f7fb630cd5eec7 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Vibrator with Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vibrator-with-partner-sex/#post-10212 Mon, 22 Sep 2025 01:03:48 -0400 Typically by the time we’re engaged in intercourse, I have already had at least one if not two full body orgasms. By then, my internal/external clitoris is so engorged, I can orgasm again just by the bumping up against my protruding clit and using my PC muscles for suction fucking. Otherwise, for clit stimulation, I’ll do it manually or use the…Read more

]]> 0 61fb87011d59625cb8c672e1ae7ba1ee Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Sex Position to Try in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-position-to-try/#post-10211 Mon, 22 Sep 2025 00:57:31 -0400 <p style=”text-align: left;”>I do also love where I am on top, initially grinding and fucking, but then when we’re ready to increase the speed I squat and use his hands as a brace. He absolutely loves this one so it’s a good reminder to bring it back.</p>

]]> 0 fd4a38d8c563904ad1214f548e3bc905 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Favorite Sex Position in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/favorite-sex-position/#post-10210 Mon, 22 Sep 2025 00:48:34 -0400 As old fashioned as it sounds, I love missionary. There is something about the weight of my husband on top and the comfort that comes from it. Plus, just being face to face where we can watch each other in certain moments and on occasion make eye contact— when it’s fake and anyone is pretending, missionary is bullshit. But when it’s real, and y…Read more

]]> 0 302a72aae9c3f45ee376ecd69c56716b Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Communication: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-attitude-emotion-communication/#post-10204 Fri, 19 Sep 2025 17:29:16 -0400 As I got older I gained confidence in asking for what I really wanted but it wasn’t until I was in my late 30’s and for about 6 months involved with a couple (male/female) – they were both excellent in communicating their individual and mutual wants and interests, both with each other and with me. I started to communicate more like them and car…Read more

]]> 0 ecee7fbd55d0b0ae71e597a8bcfb3df7 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Sexual Preference Statements in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sexual-preference-statements/#post-10203 Fri, 19 Sep 2025 17:24:55 -0400 My Preference Statements:

1. I love it when I have my vibrator on the side of my clit and you lightly touch me just around my vaginal opening (without going in).

2. My I’m closer to orgasm, I love it so much when you gently hold your finger completely still right under my clit – just the presence of your finger right there makes me cum so h…Read more

]]> 0 45c24158c042f7be5c5bee4155e7a3c0 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Communication Experience Share in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/communication-experience-share/#post-10202 Fri, 19 Sep 2025 17:10:04 -0400 No doubt, in the initial time of high school sex when even though I masturbated and knew what I liked, I would not speak up because of fear of rejection. Because of this, there were times when penetration/intercourse was painful because I wasn’t warmed up and he was clueless.

]]> 0 4497b7f9539677e5564000cedebd4bad Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Run the Fuck or Foreplay for Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/run-the-fuck-or-foreplay-for-masturbation/#post-10193 Wed, 17 Sep 2025 22:03:40 -0400 I find both statements to be legitimate. And although Run the Fuck might mislead someone into believing they have to be the “top” or on top and in control of the rhythm and penetration, that’s not fully what I believe the statement is meant to be. By all means, a woman can run the fuck while being on top but the statement itself more leans to th…Read more

]]> 0 5f72d2c80600f8290c042861482c0ff1 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Partner Masturbation Plan in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-masturbation-plan/#post-10182 Sun, 14 Sep 2025 21:10:46 -0400 Since we already do this quite frequently, I just foresee us enjoying it into our geriatric years. I do want to try Betty’s idea of doing it side by side and in front of a mirror together. Or perhaps, making a video of it.

]]> 0 f2c8c4ea95d9e84af5166ebbd1b4d3c6 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Experience with Partner Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-partner-masturbation/#post-10181 Sun, 14 Sep 2025 21:07:49 -0400 My husband and I do this several times per week, sometimes as the only practice to orgasm and other times, as the precursor to intercourse.

]]> 0 df0f080123dcbec5b6d8cd3e9c0a6680 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Release Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/release-experience-attitude-emotion-2/#post-10174 Sat, 13 Sep 2025 16:18:32 -0400 Arousal brings about desire and not the other way around. Sex begets sex. Arousal begets arousal. Orgasm begets orgasm. Self love begets self love. Fulfillment begets fulfillment…

]]> 0 d8ee999a38cfa812aa33f7f29e286ef4 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Different Level of Desire Than Partner in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/different-level-of-desire-than-partner/#post-10173 Sat, 13 Sep 2025 16:01:48 -0400 By the time I met and dated my now current husband, I had unrecognizably put my desire on a shelf to sit without attention. Life at the time was challenging— raising a child and doing it as a sole custody, single parent, no support- I was in survival mode and had lost that part of me. We would have sex but infrequently and almost always the same w…Read more

]]> 0 b654d3628c5edee5badaf75cc4895653 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Partner Sex Beliefs/Attitudes in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-beliefs-attitudes/#post-10172 Sat, 13 Sep 2025 13:05:19 -0400 Ladies, preheat that oven with masturbation prior to partner sex (let your partner watch and just butterfly touch you around your vulva/vaginal opening with zero penetration and, in my case, I even ask my husband to stay clear of my clit at that moment- during the preheat time, that’s only for me and my vibrator). Allow yourself to lay there and e…Read more

]]> 0 b1f6ea4be6c8e28034dc2daf5cf3eb61 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Something Learned to Improve Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-to-improve-partner-sex/#post-10171 Sat, 13 Sep 2025 12:51:59 -0400 First, I am always delighted to see the dynamic of Carlin and Betty- there are times when they just have me laughing out loud. (Carlin talking about falling asleep with her vibrator on her chest — Betty, “Keeping your loved one close to your heart” 😄, Betty laughing at Carlin when she said one time, she was faking an orgasm and it triggered a rea…Read more

]]> 0 4aacaed6612a0a1cfadec9715b6059cc Naomi Ruth replied to the topic My Favorite Fantasy in the forum My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/my-favorite-fantasy/#post-10169 Thu, 11 Sep 2025 01:58:21 -0400 I thought the story about the model Gloria and how she would use her fantasies to work herself up for the camera with the photographer praising her but her never admitting how she was accomplishing it. Smart.

]]> 0 76c3a3f72fb6f4043f30d11f6348721f Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out/#post-10168 Thu, 11 Sep 2025 01:54:07 -0400 I had forgotten that I read this book as a teenager- I don’t recall if I bought the book myself or if it was a copy of my mother’s or older sister’s but I remember reading it and really being turned on. Now, that part that was so compelling to me was a portion of the book that didn’t exist in the original – Nancy’s Introduction titled “Twenty F…Read more

]]> 0 ea7477b3e5049d9a227f32f2e04f688c Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Something You Learned in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-you-learned/#post-10164 Wed, 10 Sep 2025 00:11:34 -0400 I learned how much of a visual fantasizer I am, whether watching something or the visual image I  create in my own mind with my own version of fantasy. Audio, I struggle with – perhaps in time this will become a thing for me.

]]> 0 7ee5a0e6139fda772c85fcba949e934a Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Erotica and Fantasy Preferences in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/erotica-and-fantasy-preferences/#post-10163 Tue, 09 Sep 2025 23:23:25 -0400 This was a very back and forth Module for me. I loved the story of the Sex Bar but normally I’m not a huge fan of audio erotica. And there were times I loved listening to the women in the Erotic Recess circle but other times, I’m side/eyeing it like ummmm… that squealing doesn’t sound so authentic – even in a circle with Betty, herself. I do beli…Read more

]]> 0 f3f3fca56661cfd8b606cf94ab46283b Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Stories on DipseaStories.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stories-on-dipseastories-com/#post-10162 Tue, 09 Sep 2025 23:07:44 -0400 I listened to Dipsea – Leather & Lace: Joining In & Together— can’t say this is something for me. In fact, for the first time since starting this course, it felt more like obligation to homework than out of pleasure/curiosity. I wouldn’t discount it for the right people- I know for some this audio erotic listening is very stimulating and if I wer…Read more

]]> 0 3fddd23d7213734ffec1dfb4ac946f48 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Films on XConfessions.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/films-on-xconfessions-com/#post-10160 Sun, 07 Sep 2025 23:50:10 -0400 I’ve been a subscriber to Erika Lust for a year now. Dirty Martini Sex Party was the first one I ever watched and I was hooked immediately. Sometimes my husband and I will pick one and watch it together — other times, I’ll just watch by myself. Another that stood out that I really liked was Witch. I like the lesbian and bisexual ones the most…Read more

]]> 0 8c844aaec044f7b432f0583a87029bbc Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Written Erotica Recommendation in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/written-erotica-recommendation/#post-10158 Sun, 07 Sep 2025 18:51:16 -0400 Endless by Rosie Flint
Disclaimer: I haven’t read it yet but plan to soon, but based on what my sister-in-law described about it this past holiday weekend when we were visiting, I feel quite sure I will find it intriguing. It’s written by Rosie Flint (pen name), who is my sister-in-law’s daughter-in-law. It’s about a woman who is invinci…Read more

]]> 0 32d865f0a319b4e979f8fa2ace33e312 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Stories on Literotica.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stories-on-literotica-com/#post-10157 Sun, 07 Sep 2025 18:45:08 -0400 I read Carol and the Therapist (exhibitionism), Family Fuck (incest), and Incubus (nonhuman) — all go to topics of some of my fantasies over the years. My favorite was Incubus- it was very well written and I recognized a lot of similarities with my own Incubus sleep/wet dream fantasies, so it felt more personal to me.

]]> 0 e4fbdc2943c0b1800fbb11836a708d30 Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Inspiration from Erotic Art in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inspiration-from-erotic-art/#post-10155 Sat, 06 Sep 2025 02:24:09 -0400 My favorite piece esthetically was Betty’s “Woman & Swan.” Besides just being so erotic and beautiful, Betty’s talent for drawing the human body just blows me away. I mean, look at the shadowing on the woman’s legs – just staring at her legs, it looks like a photograph. She really was an amazing artist.

Out of all of them, the one that peaked my…Read more

]]> 0 526eb3713beb37c385b3faefd8b25a2d Naomi Ruth replied to the topic Creating Your Fantasy in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/creating-your-fantasy/#post-10154 Fri, 05 Sep 2025 22:25:54 -0400 I really enjoyed this activity and paid attention to how Laura walked us through the building and structure of our fantasy. Fantasizing is something I do a lot of but I really appreciated listening to the instruction Laura gave on how in order to coach/guide someone else in this skill.

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