Bodysex Education | Esther Allen-Fogarty | Activity https://education.bodysex.com/members/esther/activity/ Activity feed for Esther Allen-Fogarty. Sat, 11 Apr 2026 12:27:10 -0400 https://buddypress.org/?v= en 30 hourly 2 469c14c62ebad2d5afe578d01b449ef1 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic What stood out for you while reading Sex for One? in the forum Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-stood-out-for-you-while-reading-sex-for-one/page/2/#post-8324 Wed, 29 May 2024 11:54:23 -0400 Me too! It was such a mind opener to know masturbation is sex. And I have been sexual my entire life.

]]> 0 341efda91faa9fdf33796d3ec2025647 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Period Tips and Hacks in the forum Menstruation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/period-tips-and-hacks/#post-8320 Tue, 28 May 2024 01:31:09 -0400 When I was having period, I used a heating pad on my pelvic region and I also took hot baths.
Also I took a NSAID(Advil, Motrin).

 

]]> 0 026da5a811f3f95a5168a6430218e3b7 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic What's your menopause story? in the forum Menopause https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/whats-your-menopause-story/#post-8319 Tue, 28 May 2024 01:25:56 -0400 Ah yes menopause. I shouldn’t say this however, I didn’t find the transition that difficult. I had an endometrial ablation at 38 which stopped my menses. It was until I was 55 that I noticed I was sleeping hot and I started sleeping on bamboo sheets and tucking ice packs under my pillow (which I still do) so when I am hot, I just pull out an ice…Read more

]]> 0 968f8e9dd1207758d34b83a01be22984 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic An Experience when You Stood Up for Yourself in the forum Feminism https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/an-experience-when-you-stood-up-for-yourself/#post-8317 Tue, 28 May 2024 01:03:49 -0400 Omg, I have been in a brawl since I was born. I always loved sports and had to fight to have an opportunity to play. It was not just the guys(who didn’t care much unless I was better then them then that led to hockey stick fights and fist to cuffs) but also other girls. At least finally it is common to see girls and women in sport.

Religion was a…Read more

]]> 0 6661fbf6592b7bbced41ad1552c19470 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic An Experience when You Stood Up for Yourself in the forum Feminism https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/an-experience-when-you-stood-up-for-yourself/#post-8316 Tue, 28 May 2024 00:49:48 -0400 Funny, Laura I have been contemplating lately, how can women and others be equals and respected in society when the laws are archaic and stacked against them. It isn’t possible unless I stand up. Good for you! It is so easy for the dominate culture to say “it is implied”  o we want the language of the law to be explicit and inclusive.

]]> 0 4282af0c52be8c5357d1863149404c62 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Share a Fantasy in the forum Erotica and Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-a-fantasy/#post-8315 Tue, 28 May 2024 00:41:16 -0400 I have been practicing cultivating my sexual fantasy world. I love to imagine guys with big dicks penetrating women from behind and me being on of those women. Being pinned up against a wall and being penetrated from behind. I also imagine me penetrating men with a strap on dildo. Starting to notice I maybe a switch.

]]> 0 07bd1413003f0d3949d5abb6f54db9da Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic What's your favorite quote from Betty? in the forum Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/whats-your-favorite-quote-from-betty/#post-8314 Tue, 28 May 2024 00:33:21 -0400 Run the Fuck

It really decreased my rage around feeling I always have to run the fuck. That it wasn’t normal that the woman would run the fuck. It normalized what I had been doing during sex all these years making sure I got what I needed.

masturbation is the foundation of human sexuality

how freeing to know this. I am now a semi closeted m…Read more

]]> 0 b177661538561d49e1050048f5f48091 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Introduce Yourself in the forum Please Start Here https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/introduce-yourself-2/#post-8313 Tue, 28 May 2024 00:25:50 -0400 I am Esther, living in Canada. I am 60 years old. Love the outdoors. The ice is off the lake so I take my cold plung in the lake every mornings.  I worked as a Nurse Practitioner for 30 years and I never once asked a  client how is your orgasm. I asked them about painful intercourse and hot flashes. So when I found Bodysex, I knew it was for me. M…Read more

]]> 0 f291b3aa10ed3080fe68853a0aa5bca6 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Bodysex Documentary in the forum Module 1: What is Bodysex? https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/bodysex-documentary/page/2/#post-8312 Tue, 28 May 2024 00:12:59 -0400 What I was actually in awe of while watching Bodysex documentary was the circle of nude vulva holders. It liberated me from a lot of body shame because everyone was different shapes and sizes. Also it normalized talking about masturbation and sharing that practice in a group.

Resistance: I cringed when Betty had the women touch then taste…Read more

]]> 0 70fd85dae8a25cf2546a4cd65d6f3b8d Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic How did you discover Bodysex? in the forum Bodysex Workshops, Rituals, and Practices https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-bodysex/#post-8311 Tue, 28 May 2024 00:00:53 -0400 I found Bodysex through an internet search. I was looking for a safe and comprehensive way to explore sex and not just read about it. I loved the site and read everything I could. I reached out to Laura. I loved the idea of it being a group of women sharing their  story and orgasms together. So I attended a Bodysex workshop spring 2024. I was…Read more

]]> 0 6bf2dc56d46c957cbfce333dedf2f7e1 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic A Memorable Bodysex Workshop Moment in the forum Bodysex Workshops, Rituals, and Practices https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/a-memorable-bodysex-workshop-moment/#post-8310 Mon, 27 May 2024 23:56:00 -0400 A meaningful moment during body sex:  was during erotic recess. I had had one orgasm already. And was in the mind set of it takes so long to have the second orgasm, however, I remembered Carlin and Laura say keep going, change up what you r doing. So I reclined more than laying flat, and got out my mirror and watched myself do a vulva massage and…Read more

]]> 0 4b59a96fb8ac2600a2fcb4e39d954896 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic What birth control method do you use? in the forum Birth Control and Abortion https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-birth-control-method-do-you-use/#post-8221 Sun, 19 May 2024 00:41:44 -0400 Birth control  history:
I remember birth control being such a big issue. I had migraines with auras which is contra indicated for oral contraceptives. Wish I had chosen a diaphragm. Then I could have experienced penetration without a condom in my monogamous relationship. We used condoms and spermicide foam for years.

then at 38 I had an…Read more

]]> 0 60ae25cbcc364e2c0e4a8d05931b1766 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Stuck in a masturbation rut in the forum Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stuck-in-a-masturbation-rut/#post-8220 Sun, 19 May 2024 00:25:54 -0400 I found Betty’s documentary on women’s orgasm very helpful in giving me new ideas for masturbating.

]]> 0 575b86481a75bc1c549a52948e3f7c94 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic What is Bodysex? in the forum Module 1: What is Bodysex? https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-is-bodysex/page/2/#post-8219 Sun, 19 May 2024 00:21:00 -0400 I agree. I have also found bodysex an amazing process of shedding body shame

]]> 0 a4b05b135eca9be68e0ad7ee1dc8f719 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Something to Experience/Explore in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-to-experience-explore/#post-8196 Sun, 12 May 2024 22:13:55 -0400 I would like to explore group sex through body sex. And continue to develop my rock and roll skills.

]]> 0 5a6536cdbf1be9c542fd7c63d1008bb6 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Judgement Experience in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/judgement-experience/#post-8195 Sun, 12 May 2024 22:09:51 -0400 Judged sexually, hum, was told throughout my childhood I should have been a boy(I loved sports, loved physical sports where you could hit people). I am also a natural leader (people saw that as masculine too back then). Girls called me a lisbien, boys called me a butch. Shit, I was and am just me(still love movement, and love sex). I remuneration…Read more

]]> 0 e0d31405fe09afe61116aeea64f69291 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Sex Work: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-experience-attitude-emotion/#post-8194 Sun, 12 May 2024 21:57:46 -0400 I would like to release the belief that sex workers are dirty and break up families.
I would like to belief that sex work is a legitimate business and necessary service. People have always and will always be paying for sex. So why not have sex workers who can offer their services on their own terms.

]]> 0 746d820848d1facac7f8a321a370ffec Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Sex Work: Something that Stood Out in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-something-that-stood-out/#post-8193 Sun, 12 May 2024 21:51:22 -0400 Prostitution: they only rent their body by the hour Marriage: sell their body for a life time (sorry this is a paraphrase)

I remember what my dad said to me as a kid, “sex is power, sex is a commodity” I think I was 12 at the time and it was hard to get my head around those concepts. Now at 60, of course it is. And if more woman where aware or…Read more

]]> 0 b788d32b478d97fa3f214294512476cb Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Myth About Kink/BDSM in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/myth-about-kink-bdsm/#post-8192 Sun, 12 May 2024 20:26:34 -0400 My misconception that kink, bdsm were brutal and all about pain. What I learned is that all activities are negotiated, and feed back is given during the experience and consent can be withdrawn at anytime by using the safety word. Uh seems safer than most dates where so much is not communicated.

]]> 0 e112551005de3305f97dccad4c8ac623 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Kink/BDSM Activity in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/kink-bdsm-activity/#post-8191 Sun, 12 May 2024 20:22:09 -0400 Can’t say I have any experience with either other than I love my hair being pulled. I would like to try, light bondage with silk ropes securing my hands to the bed posts(nothing i couldn’t get out of my self) then be dominant teased to the edge of orgasm, over and over again, even with a light pinch on my vulva.

and then flip and be the top

]]> 0 f0ff1f7b652f51d9ac6ce743f4f02fde Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Share Your Experience with Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-your-experience-with-tantra/#post-8189 Sun, 12 May 2024 19:27:00 -0400 I don’t have any experience with tantra other than what I learned through the Bodysex method (very powerful experience)

]]> 0 389982c53b6e272cb6f8252badab4ac3 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Barbara Carrellas and Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/barbara-carrellas-and-tantra/#post-8188 Sun, 12 May 2024 19:25:37 -0400 What stood out for me is Bodysex has so many components of tantra. Interesting that Betty intuitively taped into the ancient practice. What I love about Bodysex is Betty uses plan down to earth language and fun. Where tantra has a religious feel to it

]]> 0 c4a9f1ea7be38948a763e6854a91053a Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic End Slut Stigma in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/end-slut-stigma/#post-8187 Sun, 12 May 2024 18:20:41 -0400 Ending the slut stigma. When woman have more options economically and can afford to raise their children on their own(so many all already do (my mom did) and live in poverty). This also needs to be  coupled with access to birth control, including abortions, and woman understanding their clitoral  system. Also that woman are not put here on earth f…Read more

]]> 0 47a97e453251c8e29a811d5a13b7bcc1 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Slut Stigma and Repression in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/slut-stigma-and-repression/#post-8186 Sun, 12 May 2024 18:09:06 -0400 The slut stigma reinforces the repression of female sexuality. Its meaning carries shame and guilt if a person with a vulva breaks society’s sexual rules. The shame and guilt can and have curved females sexual behaviour evident by the questions being asked on these podcast. The shame attached to having an abortion (may be a little less now,but, s…Read more

]]> 0 40868e68401fdf85b678868900809220 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Orgasms with a Group in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasms-with-a-group/#post-8185 Sun, 12 May 2024 17:27:24 -0400 My experience with group sex was at  this May’s Bodysex group. It is still hard to put into words the experience. It was like all body shame melted away. Reinforced that I am a sensual and sexual being and that is my birth right to pleasure myself and share that with others if I so choose. It was amazing watching other women masturbating and he…Read more

]]> 0 fb9e8526cec5ac1735279489163d2641 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic New Relationship Awareness in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/new-relationship-awareness/#post-8184 Sat, 11 May 2024 20:45:25 -0400 Sex at Dawn, has me pondering my beliefs about monogamy. It is fascinating, that humans are not naturally monogamous.  It is the dawn of agriculture, that ushers in the need to accumulation goods & property. Including   the ownership of women (monogamy) to guarantee the paternity of the child(heir). I can see how this lack of knowledge about h…Read more

]]> 0 fa4a6fce2014bba209c5b6600c1ca36c Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic The Ethical Slut in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-ethical-slut/#post-8183 Sat, 11 May 2024 20:13:46 -0400 I laughed when I saw “The Ethical Slut”. At first I thought what an “oxymoron” Then I realized that to believe the title is an oxymoron, I must have a part that believes that people who have multiple partners are by nature unethical. Ouch, that one hurts(being born into Christianity no wonder I have this part). As Easton expanded on what they me…Read more

]]> 0 8bf4d521376418c4158144f5794d18dd Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Human Sexuality Misconception/Myth in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/human-sexuality-misconception-myth/#post-8182 Fri, 10 May 2024 21:22:26 -0400 That historically humans are monogamous. That we started out as nuclear families. In truth we lived in hunter and gather societies and share our resources out of necessity. I learned to share when I lived in Brasil for the same reason. One day I have say the cheese and you don’t so I share, knowing that tomorrow, I might need to borrow your hoe. A…Read more

]]> 0 6bf87da70799c4e829bbb79e87556ea7 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Information from Leonard Shlain/Alphabet vs the Goddess in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-leonard-shlain-alphabet-vs-the-goddess/#post-8181 Fri, 10 May 2024 21:00:52 -0400 Wow, this was a challenge to comprehend. May have to read the book, however, will limit my note taking so not to add to the already global suppression of women.😳.

What broke my heart was that statistic that the female human has the highest maternal mortality rate during childbirth than any other species. 20% in Africa. How pleasure and risk are…Read more

]]> 0 ce9353c5a5be9f414b0674e4a30095fd Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Information from Chris Ryan/Sex at Dawn in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-chris-ryan-sex-at-dawn/#post-8180 Fri, 10 May 2024 20:41:55 -0400 What stood out for me was the information on Banobos. When they are stressed they fuck. When food is thrown into the cage (a stressor) they fuck first then share the food. Maybe Betty’s vision of everyone fucking and then peace breaking is very intuitive wisdom having its foundation in our banobos (not sure how to spell this) cousins who d…Read more

]]> 0 1c3afff30c4bfe481e7aa98dca4acb36 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Something Learned About Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-sexual-orientation/#post-8167 Sat, 04 May 2024 00:58:58 -0400 I was pondering the bisexual label awhile back. After discussing it with a friend she said Esther you are just sexual. That resonated with me. And hearing it confirmed in the videos just reaffirmed what I had discovered through my own exploration. Man I love it when that happens.

Every human is sexual. Yup sounds about right to be

]]> 0 c8d0ab3577c4e3e3d4f471f7eef41890 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Your Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-sexual-orientation/#post-8166 Sat, 04 May 2024 00:53:13 -0400 It is more about characteristics that I am attracted too then the body. After 32 years I still love to sneak peaks at my husband in the shower. Still hot at 59. But to me he is the complete package, sweet, funny, kind, considerate, athletic ( yes he is real). He never gave a shit if I want to drive or carry my kayak. I definitely appreciate male…Read more

]]> 0 17c2abb1a2de3e97b3bd6883374d0f72 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Let's All Come Out! in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/lets-all-come-out/#post-8165 Fri, 03 May 2024 01:36:45 -0400 I have been in a long term monogamous heterosexual marriage. I am grateful for this course as I have been able to spice up our sex life and mine. It is only recently I have thought about sex/sexuality. I was talking with a good friend, and she said Esther, you are just sexual. I feel “sexual” resonates more with me then any other word.
I only sha…Read more

]]> 0 d926554ff63e83e8ac30030cb3326563 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic "Inside Betty Dodson" Article in the Forum in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inside-betty-dodson-article-in-the-forum/#post-8164 Fri, 03 May 2024 01:21:19 -0400 “ Somebody asked me if I was a boy or a girl and I smiled and said both”  I love and live this quote.  I remembered being asked this question many times because I loved to play sports, wore sweat pants (way before everyone did). I remember walking to hockey practice and a little girl asked me that question. And in my early 20’s in Brasil little…Read more

]]> 0 bd7199ae808949e76de363de2ac592e6 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Chapter that Stands Out for You in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/chapter-that-stands-out-for-you-2/#post-8153 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 23:01:26 -0400 2 chapters I will read again are 10 Orgasm For Two: I love all the variations in sex positions and instructions on how to stimulate the clitoris in each position. Have tried a few positions out and look forward to trying others out.

I loved  the chapter Especially for Men, know I know what to asks for (slow penetration and play around the hole)…Read more

]]> 0 21d699e590f2820fb6952919b1a375c9 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out-2/#post-8152 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 22:50:09 -0400 What stood out for me “Maintaining Private Solo Sex In a Partnership” pg. 100

This chapter took away a lot of my shame  about secretly masturbating. It is not a secret any longer.  That it is healthy to masturbate, that it allows me to focus on my own pleasure without having to focus or worry about what is happening with my partner’s pleasur…Read more

]]> 0 a6d62f236a3c19d83f0857def1c4eb51 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Change for Future Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/change-for-future-partner-sex/#post-8148 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 21:43:24 -0400 I want to warm myself up first with vulva massage and my vibrator. Then when I am really aroused I would like to have partner contact.

]]> 0 37a784f9490380e72051edb3c9dab09f Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Partner Sex: Something Learned in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-something-learned/#post-8147 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 21:40:38 -0400 That sex is many skills that need to be learned. Why is this important then just maybe more people will have more enjoyable sex during their life time and take the shame out of not knowing how to be a good lover. And learn to be one.

]]> 0 b5ddaab19ddd903ea0057e50faf59365 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Birth Control: Attitude, Experience, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/birth-control-release-attitude-experience-emotion/#post-8146 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 21:29:53 -0400 I have a lot of fear and rage of what is happening in the United States reversing abortion rights. Hope this doesn’t spill over into Canada(I don’t think it will). Every female deserves to have access to birth control of there choice regardless of age or economic status.

]]> 0 ba692cdab6a753b3b136395916d4cfb1 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Preferred Birth Control in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/preferred-birth-control/#post-8145 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 21:14:03 -0400 I used condoms and foam until I had an endometrial ablation at 38 and my partner had a vasectomy at 36. Absolutely happy days when I no longer worried about unwanted pregnancy.

]]> 0 5bc4dcdb5ff46238f4996309e7f095c6 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic "Must Have" Sex Skill/Practice in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/must-have-sex-skill-practice/#post-8144 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 19:56:24 -0400 Control over my clitoris stimulation with a vibrator, contract and relax my pc muscles, fantasize  and breathe. This way I am able to control my build up to an orgasm and it turns off my monkey brain worrying about am I taking too long blah blah blah.

]]> 0 1cb7a245d43fe127002df2986d0733d9 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Something Learned about Partner Sex Skills in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-partner-sex-skills/#post-8143 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 19:52:32 -0400 I learned the importance of both partner’s pc muscles being active during sex. Prolongs an erection and enhances orgasms.
I also learned to take control of my clitoris stimulation using a vibrator during partner sex in various positions.

]]> 0 17c38a14c39a8fa0565264178064bc8f Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Vibrator with Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vibrator-with-partner-sex/#post-8142 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 13:32:09 -0400 What I have learned is some positions even with a thumb size vibrator it is hard to get clitoris stimulation cause there isn’t much room for the vibrator and creates a pressure point. More practice needed for sure.
My partner likes to give me clit stim, however, right now I don’t want to hand over my vibrator cause then my mind doesn’t worry that…Read more

]]> 0 9323b9adad41e7fdd9f774c1b75386da Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Sex Position to Try in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-position-to-try/#post-8141 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 13:23:32 -0400 Position I would like to practice more is doggy style. This time with more pillow to support my upper body and a step to get our bodies at correct height. This way I can control my vibrator. I love the thought of my partner penetrating and having his hands on my shoulders or butt

]]> 0 e74cada5710c72f900ad04e57022e0da Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Favorite Sex Position in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/favorite-sex-position/#post-8140 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 13:18:46 -0400 I like a cross between spooning and right angle. Penetration is from behind however I place my top leg back and over my partner. I like this because I can use the magic wand for clitoris  stimulation . My partner can play with my breasts. I love it when he puts his hands on my shoulders and thrust. I can easily had more lubrication.

]]> 0 f8ff358b5f76b0f1f344f06e9bce5c26 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Communication: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-attitude-emotion-communication/#post-8118 Tue, 23 Apr 2024 15:21:33 -0400 I would like to  release being a shamed about my sexual preferences which keeps me from asking or directing my partner most of the time

]]> 0 b913ef4bf358ff0ad6e7a71dafda2dbc Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Sexual Preference Statements in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sexual-preference-statements/#post-8115 Mon, 22 Apr 2024 14:59:54 -0400 1. I love it when you finger my vaginal opening , could you do more of that.

2. could you please put your hands on my ass and squeeze

3. I love it when you caress my boobs, it makes me hot when you caress the outer side of them

Responses

1. doggy style, I am up for that, let’s try

2. Anal play no penetration, sure, I can do anal play, do y…Read more

]]> 0 88bbfd0a525c33c38eb8ac691c30aa53 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Communication Experience Share in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/communication-experience-share/#post-8114 Mon, 22 Apr 2024 14:45:21 -0400 I am in a long term relationship of more than 30 years. I noticed we were not having partner sex that often anymore. And I enjoy sex. So first I had to communicate/negotiate with my partner to Sunday morning sex sessions. That was tough, because they get so embarrassed. So now we are sticking to our schedule and now working on communicating what I…Read more

]]> 0 689d59fd2d47f13fd1645bfe159165e6 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Run the Fuck or Foreplay for Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/run-the-fuck-or-foreplay-for-masturbation/#post-8095 Mon, 22 Apr 2024 00:22:07 -0400 How liberating! Running the fuck means I am responsible for my own orgasm. This has made me more open to ask for a break to get more lube, ask to be touched in a different way, if something is painful or uncomfortably stop/change positions, and I stimulate my own clitoris. My partner still likes to do my clitoris stimulation however now I am more…Read more

]]> 0 3eaa572cffd6d31012a67c9e18924947 Esther Allen-Fogarty replied to the topic Partner Masturbation Plan in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-masturbation-plan/#post-8094 Sun, 21 Apr 2024 17:09:03 -0400 Mutual masturbation is at a dead end. However, for partner assisted masturbation I plan to ask for finger penetration while using the magic wand. We haven’t done this yet. I need to go slow and not over load my partner with too many new ideas. I am very pleased we are back having regular pleasure time. One step at a time as we both have years of c…Read more

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