Bodysex Education | Jacquelyn Chaplin | Activity https://education.bodysex.com/members/j-chaplin/activity/ Activity feed for Jacquelyn Chaplin. Tue, 14 Apr 2026 11:46:53 -0400 https://buddypress.org/?v= en 30 hourly 2 69788dbc2e58d559fcd77cb0e9dc8bfe Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Something to Experience/Explore in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-to-experience-explore/#post-10215 Mon, 22 Sep 2025 10:18:44 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The sex related thing is the Tantra Breath Work – and I have already started using Barbara’s instructions for the breath and energy orgasm exercise… I think I need to record it so I can walk my way through the exercise until I am proficient.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>AND!</p>
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]]> 0 8eac0c34e9b3280d5a9d15d4d11db75a Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Judgement Experience in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/judgement-experience/#post-10213 Mon, 22 Sep 2025 10:11:30 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Definitely have been judged by others –  I remember the feeling rather than the incidents so much… I like to kiss a lot of different boys in my mid-teens and as a result when I found  someone important (as being 17yo) – and gave my virginity to him – before I had – a whole lot of guys at his school had said they’d ki…Read more

]]> 0 8d95e46f23c0d6bb2db2e6d1ad060bcb Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Sex Work: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-experience-attitude-emotion/#post-10207 Sun, 21 Sep 2025 05:09:54 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I am all good with sex workers consciously choosing sex work as a way to earn an income. The only issue I have is the women who are forced into it and have no freedom or say in their working life.</p>
I really railed against the level of judgement that the woman who wrote to Betty about sex workers laid at their feet.…Read more

]]> 0 6504f3d001f0b5cf780bff17b69f3e91 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Sex Work: Something that Stood Out in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-something-that-stood-out/#post-10205 Sun, 21 Sep 2025 05:03:53 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Three pieces stood out…</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Ryn Pfeuffer says: “If sexuality is viewed as a commodity I may as well wield it… on my own terms.” I love this, because it’s a woman taking control and choosing of her own free wil as to whether sex work is for her or not.</p>
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]]> 0 d7617fd0d1bb85661da3d4d405486920 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Myth About Kink/BDSM in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/myth-about-kink-bdsm/#post-10200 Fri, 19 Sep 2025 04:03:46 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>That kink is dirty or perverted seems the most common myth or misconception to me… and even some people starting in the scene will talk about it being dirty or naughty – the idea of doing kink things that are deemed dirty, or naughty can seem like the kink in and of itself.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think cul…Read more

]]> 0 494bade47a82d7258d7ded1a586771ca Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Kink/BDSM Activity in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/kink-bdsm-activity/#post-10198 Fri, 19 Sep 2025 03:54:57 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I have been playing in the kink space since January 2024 and have been on a continuous learning journey exploring all the things I was interested in to start. What has become evident is that as I have been leaning into different areas, things that I once was not in any way interested in are now things that I am…Read more

]]> 0 87190ee0b4c5cf7dda483b147d33edba Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Share Your Experience with Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-your-experience-with-tantra/#post-10196 Fri, 19 Sep 2025 00:59:07 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I have not had any previous experience with Tantra – but like the application of the proactical way Barbara introduces it.</p>
 

]]> 0 8cc9bd215d56e22979896c3cd40b89a6 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Barbara Carrellas and Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/barbara-carrellas-and-tantra/#post-10194 Fri, 19 Sep 2025 00:57:06 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The similarities of the Bodysex arousal enhancing activities are deeply aligned with Carrelles’ Urban Tantra approach to a breath and energy orgasm. It means that the two concepts are sympatico when supporting women to be more orgasmic. And that using the tantra breath work to fill the tank, means that I can then a…Read more

]]> 0 a74ee361d86780c5c64d69bd01a76fa0 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic End Slut Stigma in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/end-slut-stigma/#post-10191 Wed, 17 Sep 2025 07:44:21 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think the best thing that can be done to help end slut stigma is for women, particularly, to own their own enjoyment of sexual pleasure… to say thank you when being called a slut…
and to talk to as many people about it as possible. The idea being to normalise the idea that women like good sex with great people as muc…Read more

]]> 0 7afb96606e2b2b53d764a5da5715a4f9 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Slut Stigma and Repression in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/slut-stigma-and-repression/#post-10189 Wed, 17 Sep 2025 06:46:43 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Slut stigma and shaming is all about controlling women’s autonomy, and a woman’s right to choose her way of being sexual in the world, of seeking pleasure for pleasure’s self. Whilst the negative connotation remains, women will either limit their experiences (until they learn better) and/or hide the enjoyment they…Read more

]]> 0 47568325af8f3f529153864c490f4a4c Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Orgasms with a Group in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasms-with-a-group/#post-10187 Wed, 17 Sep 2025 00:49:12 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I have shared orgasms in a group of three… I have immensely enjoyed watching others climax from being in the same erotic space and it definitely ups the ante on my arousal levels and makes my own orgasms more enjoyable. I would happily enjoy orgasms moving forward with increasing numbers of people I know and feel c…Read more

]]> 0 cec6bc66fd1973c679bbd916d3c65b80 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic New Relationship Awareness in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/new-relationship-awareness/#post-10185 Tue, 16 Sep 2025 06:30:12 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think the most important piece about my learning and awareness from this lesson has been just how far I have been able to step into a new way of being in relationship and a fully sexual being through this whole Bodysex experience to date… and that I’ve also been able to notice where the longtime conditioning abo…Read more

]]> 0 f5e9cfd7ca52ecb2581f2c0bd6a2278e Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic The Ethical Slut in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-ethical-slut/#post-10183 Tue, 16 Sep 2025 06:19:56 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Dossie and her totally pragmatic approach to life and ethical sluttery was totally engaging…. So much so that early on in the talk I purchased the book to read…</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Her Definition: An ethical Slut has a celebratory and adventurous approach to sexuality, and to owning their own sex…Read more

]]> 0 c50c73aacec9eb17a2c81b83dd6114e2 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Human Sexuality Misconception/Myth in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/human-sexuality-misconception-myth/#post-10179 Sun, 14 Sep 2025 02:12:11 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>This information had landed at a point in time where a perfect storm of issues of love, sex, misogyny & internalised misogyny, in the next generation have been front of mind… so this lesson has been a great coming together of old on new learnings, attitudes and values.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The Dawn of Sex s…Read more

]]> 0 679a0178af8cc1493943a4b8fda719c4 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Information from Leonard Shlain/Alphabet vs the Goddess in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-leonard-shlain-alphabet-vs-the-goddess/#post-10177 Sun, 14 Sep 2025 01:36:44 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The list of new things is long. And I’m pretty sure an ongoing review of the concepts will be required to get more than I did on the first watch…</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>ONE: Self Reported Straight Women are seemingly more influenced by society’s sexual norms and repressive conditioning.
Different sexual stimu…Read more

]]> 0 35164d1c662a90b279b29f310b5855ab Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Information from Chris Ryan/Sex at Dawn in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-chris-ryan-sex-at-dawn/#post-10175 Sun, 14 Sep 2025 01:12:44 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think the fundamental piece that matters the most to me in the videos is the notion of monogamy being a relatively recent concept and that monogamy is a social construct that the ongoing Cinderella fantasy ties into – even today – girls are still raised to believe that monogamy and being the sole focus of som…Read more

]]> 0 be95c97c768cdf66f0dcf7f4c3376326 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Something Learned About Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-sexual-orientation/#post-10121 Thu, 21 Aug 2025 00:26:29 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think the most valuable learning about sexual orientation is that it doesn’t matter – except perhaps between sexual and asexual. I used to get tied up in terminology – which I think is important… ie why would you say your orientation was one thing ie straight and then add lesbian or bisexual? … I guess we all like…Read more

]]> 0 fb2207acb46b79ff5378050a329a65fc Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Your Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-sexual-orientation/#post-10119 Wed, 20 Aug 2025 03:35:37 -0400 I like to write my answer to these forum questions and then come and read through everyone’s responses… in a way, I also feel like I am talking into a void and hope that the next person to follow me through the course will read my responses too.

The notion that speaks to me from above is that people here are more interested in the…Read more

]]> 0 8dd87c87d40395382f73e08cdac850ec Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Let's All Come Out! in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/lets-all-come-out/#post-10117 Tue, 19 Aug 2025 03:16:00 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400; text-align: center;”>I would describe my sex style as
enthusiastic and energetic engagement in the pursuit of pleasure.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Given my open style of communication and the belief that sex is beautiful and fun, and we should all take about it more – the idea of coming out about your sexual s…Read more

]]> 0 518528aab22709578d702b29b5eb18bb Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic "Inside Betty Dodson" Article in the Forum in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inside-betty-dodson-article-in-the-forum/#post-10115 Tue, 19 Aug 2025 03:05:19 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The key stand out for me in the article was the notion of the heterosexual monogamous pair bond that makes people – women more likely than men (I think) insecure and can generate hostility. Especially when it’s seems more appropriate for men to “stray”… In that set up no one person is a whole person in his or her own r…Read more

]]> 0 6e29f95b94107964e83d72ceac4b7cab Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Chapter that Stands Out for You in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/chapter-that-stands-out-for-you-2/#post-10111 Sun, 17 Aug 2025 05:22:06 -0400 Chapter Three LOVING LOVE… leaning into conditioned models of female heterosexual romantic love and marriage would be something to revisit. Although I am largely now impacted by the conditioning – I realise they are still alive and well and I want to be reminded about he difference between loving love – versus  having the understanding that…Read more

]]> 0 a2f3e473d6318a960fb94b4538fbe394 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out-2/#post-10108 Sun, 17 Aug 2025 05:10:17 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I feel there is a whole lot I am missing out on by listening to Betty’s books rather than having hard copies to hold onto and mark up and see the visuals. The way the e-book is set up means that they don’t always correlate chapters in the audio book with those in the hard copy – so page numbers and chapter refer…Read more

]]> 0 319e243304f422c1c0ab60022b682b36 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Change for Future Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/change-for-future-partner-sex/#post-10103 Sun, 17 Aug 2025 03:04:05 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>After the first see how we play together sex experience that I can take the next step to have  conversations fully and openly; confidently to explore options for outercourse as well as intercourse. To talk about likes and dislikes – loves and toe-curling goodness.</p>

]]> 0 3ff7bf7fc844028baf4a50df3c00f16b Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Partner Sex: Something Learned in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-something-learned/#post-10101 Sun, 17 Aug 2025 02:59:52 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>What I learned about partner sex is the differences and difficulty of the espoused theory about open conversations with partners about wants, needs and desires and the reality of trying to make it happen during sex… I think the collective power is in sharing how we can have those conversations fully and openly; c…Read more

]]> 0 a4a73204b344b147c6cb019e8823956a Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Birth Control: Attitude, Experience, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/birth-control-release-attitude-experience-emotion/#post-10099 Sun, 17 Aug 2025 01:33:04 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Birth control was never anything more than a way to assure others I wasn’t going to get pregnant. I think at a cellular level I was never going to be pregnant. It just has never been a point of issue in my mind.</p>

]]> 0 dce0113523ac52452478746b3ce2f95f Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Preferred Birth Control in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/preferred-birth-control/#post-10097 Sun, 17 Aug 2025 01:30:23 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>My personal preferred birth control WAS the Mirena. I never had any issues with it medically – even though I know others who have had medical issues. I do however love that I no longer need birth control and still get to have all the sex I want.</p>

]]> 0 1baa1c03995d402346bf522afdb409e8 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic "Must Have" Sex Skill/Practice in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/must-have-sex-skill-practice/#post-10095 Wed, 13 Aug 2025 06:54:55 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>This is kissing and eye contact for me… I think the other stuff can be more easily communicated and guided, talked about, shared and improved. But the ability to kiss so slowly and sensually is about the starting slow and building arousal. The eye contact  for me seems to be linked with a level of awareness and se…Read more

]]> 0 8772616890bc008a6471896e5635e60f Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Something Learned about Partner Sex Skills in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-partner-sex-skills/#post-10093 Wed, 13 Aug 2025 06:40:42 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think the biggest thing about partner sex skills that I’ve learnt is the positions that are more likely to facilitate the use of vibrators during partner play. And I’m curious about whether playmates would feel better, different, more aroused if I allowed them to do clit stim during penetration. so the exposure to…Read more

]]> 0 fbfc4eb9dcaf115c557cc36937ca454d Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Vibrator with Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vibrator-with-partner-sex/#post-10091 Wed, 13 Aug 2025 04:42:30 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Essentially the learning has been about the role that different size vibrators play and how they best fit with different positions. Having the visuals and the discussion in this lesson about the variety of positions that best suit has been really helpful.</p>

]]> 0 370c8af173fd15887cc6f9ebcb6ed596 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Sex Position to Try in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-position-to-try/#post-10089 Wed, 13 Aug 2025 04:38:32 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I really want to try double pen with two bi guys who are totally into each other as well as me. I have enjoyed double penetration with dildos that were being used by a guy on me and that felt fabulous – I have tried it – but it takes patience and two hard cocks – which as I have discovered takes more planning, effor…Read more

]]> 0 902f53192835125c831a1e1803199f36 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Favorite Sex Position in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/favorite-sex-position/#post-10087 Wed, 13 Aug 2025 04:33:34 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>This is a really hard question to answer… there are so many positions I like… and they vary based on partners and their preferences and how I feel on any given day… two favourites… one is anal – sitting on his cock while my tits are squeezed and held… this is a newly found position for me and supports the RTF and tak…Read more

]]> 0 5807e151a8fe0ac91cf2338eb152c8a4 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Communication: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-attitude-emotion-communication/#post-10084 Mon, 11 Aug 2025 05:28:47 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I’d like to feel more confident in being able to have a conversation before sex begins with a new partner that I have already played with… I noted in my journal reflection that I quite like seeing just how a new partner and I fit together with out a lot of specific discussion – outside of being clear about hard bou…Read more

]]> 0 fd1c19b2a7d48d64bb476147634d39cf Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Communication Experience Share in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/communication-experience-share/#post-10082 Mon, 11 Aug 2025 05:00:13 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>There has definitely been an interaction more recently with one of my FWB (Dame) where I have not said anything during the heat of sex because he has been a considerate and considered partner… so I was considering his desire to have PiV in a particular way, even though it doesn’t really suit our bodies together… ie hi…Read more

]]> 0 e1cdfa6a12ce30a905229057d3ea44fb Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Run the Fuck or Foreplay for Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/run-the-fuck-or-foreplay-for-masturbation/#post-10075 Tue, 05 Aug 2025 07:36:01 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The concept of Run The Fuck has appealed since it was first mentioned some time ago.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The big shift sits with the fucking as foreplay for masturbation. Although when fucking has been less than satisfying – when I am not sated at the end of play, I’ve turned towards masturbation… but c…Read more

]]> 0 3eed177e7c3f9f905c6be7a0813b04d8 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Partner Masturbation Plan in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-masturbation-plan/#post-10071 Tue, 05 Aug 2025 00:50:10 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Any plan is simply about discussing it specifically/explicitly and to see how that changes my experiences and my story about masturbation as a solo act.</p>

]]> 0 f1503f86b7dcf30a379c0aa17ae0ea77 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Experience with Partner Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-partner-masturbation/#post-10069 Tue, 05 Aug 2025 00:46:23 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>yes…</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The answer is yes – but it’s never been intentional… it’s not been specifically discussed  – just something that he and or I have done for ourselves, in front of each other to enhance the sexual experience.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>no…</p>
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]]> 0 0e467277224cc4994a668d36f1e00ee7 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Different Level of Desire Than Partner in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/different-level-of-desire-than-partner/#post-10001 Fri, 04 Jul 2025 05:51:53 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>With both marriages the different level of sexual desire became an issue – especially once the dopamine/limerence effect of having sex with each other wore off. And neither times did I have the self-awareness and confidence to state my needs and discuss effectively how to address the disparity and resolve the lack. M…Read more

]]> 0 4f386b197ee84f8fbf8df93d1d9b45d6 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Release Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/release-experience-attitude-emotion-2/#post-9999 Fri, 04 Jul 2025 05:44:54 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think the best thing I can release for myself is that it was OK not knowing any better or differently during my marriages and forgive myself for not knowing then what I know now. And that has, and is, allowing me the ability to clearly define how I want my sex life to be moving forward. That I am more than happy to…Read more

]]> 0 65c33ab74c0db13662cf968fec7def77 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Partner Sex Beliefs/Attitudes in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-beliefs-attitudes/#post-9997 Fri, 04 Jul 2025 04:09:28 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>No challenges per se, but I have recognised that there are still some things I am reticent to do or say during partner sex that I could be much better, quicker to say or ask and clearer in the moment. Must go and share some feedback with my pleasurable experience lover!</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I certainly…Read more

]]> 0 46286137edeec14e753d9acfbe8eef59 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Something Learned to Improve Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-to-improve-partner-sex/#post-9995 Fri, 04 Jul 2025 04:01:23 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>It’s more reinforced than learnt from this lesson. It’s been a reminder to be clear about what I want, how I want it and knowing how to give it to myself and then taking that clarity into partner sex. I think it is trickier to give feedback when I ask for it and get nothing needs to be different – it’s all fabulou…Read more

]]> 0 114b2c8542becb12db8417819c3a6436 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic My Favorite Fantasy in the forum My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/my-favorite-fantasy/#post-9989 Mon, 30 Jun 2025 05:38:09 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Chapter 2 Approval – Francesca and a Raja– her mother (not her real mother – an authority figure)  having trained me in being ready to be sold to a potentate as a sexual object as the age of 13. She has been trained by her mother to be sold for the pleasure of one man.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Weirdly this i…Read more

]]> 0 bbec4586488330763f73b7a9a6e4ebed Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out/#post-9987 Mon, 30 Jun 2025 05:24:27 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I read this too long ago and would’ve noted items had I have known I was going to be asked for specifics. Also doing this with an audio book is much harder than with a book I was reading – … I think the overall book reinforces that importance of pleasure and of bringing fantasies into the realms of experiences and kee…Read more

]]> 0 77fa8fb71272c2b26087b7cd2b7fa93c Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Something You Learned in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-you-learned/#post-9982 Mon, 30 Jun 2025 02:05:45 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I think reinforced rather than learnt is the thing that this module gave to me. That there is no wrong or right way to fantasise. That everyone is different. And that the more open we can become to a range of fantasies the more pleasure we can experience.</p>

]]> 0 737729017b64a4a7dc06f52372a356b4 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Erotica and Fantasy Preferences in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/erotica-and-fantasy-preferences/#post-9980 Mon, 30 Jun 2025 02:03:46 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Film and ASMR audio are definitely the formats I enjoy in terms of stimulating arousal. Erotica art is something I enjoy but like all formats the enjoyment comes from what specifically turns me on. And what I have definitely learnt through this module is that I (and I would have to assume others) have particular things…Read more

]]> 0 8c6585086ad2c447e20876f9796a2e2d Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Stories on DipseaStories.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stories-on-dipseastories-com/#post-9978 Mon, 30 Jun 2025 00:45:03 -0400 Marta has his the nail on the head about how the audio on Dipsea landed for me versus The Fuck Bar!
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I also found it difficult to find a piece that hit it on all fronts… I either found the voice, the story line – the slightest bit of pandering to males sends my head off in an unhelpful, non erotic directions. I rea…Read more

]]> 0 e2b8a89ae05100e52fc1fffd9745b9d5 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Films on XConfessions.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/films-on-xconfessions-com/#post-9942 Tue, 24 Jun 2025 00:30:03 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I have the sense that without paying for movies, people are offered a similar or short list of films.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>The one I enjoyed the most was The Dirty Martini Party – the colourful, light setting and the mood of erotic lightness and sense of play and fun was epic.</p>
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]]> 0 6c1c2c5c32f22c6fbe8389760a03ac5c Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Stories on Literotica.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stories-on-literotica-com/#post-9937 Thu, 19 Jun 2025 01:55:45 -0400 I’d not heard of the site before… but in talking about it to partners they certainly had…

Like many of the others above, if I had been told to capture the stories and their links that I liked I would’ve been able to find them. So, I’ll talk about the types of stories and themes I liked instead… I much prefer a short story – with just enough…Read more

]]> 0 29f2369c0d2c9c986bd6ed728a666c6c Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Inspiration from Erotic Art in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inspiration-from-erotic-art/#post-9919 Mon, 09 Jun 2025 11:06:52 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>So much of the imagery had an arousing effect on me… the one that I could so readily work up a fantasy for was the gangbang scene from Betty’s fantasy journal.</p>
<p style=”font-weight: 400;”>Being surrounded by six men, all interested in pleasuring me and enjoying themselves at the same time… being in a warm room,…Read more

]]> 0 ddf14bb29371005c7ba15a987e0bb07c Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Creating Your Fantasy in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/creating-your-fantasy/#post-9911 Tue, 27 May 2025 08:43:19 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>This was a fun activity… using a sensual experience of being naked at the beach in the sun thht a slight breeze, it was really easy to close my eyes and build on the feeling and take the feeling into a fantasy that then escalated through the second part of the activity… unsurprisingly, I then took some time out to l…Read more

]]> 0 ded972ea2a18f2cb0a93f35f4a0d52e5 Jacquelyn Chaplin replied to the topic Fantasy Experience, Attitude or Emotion in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/fantasy-experience-attitude-or-emotion/#post-9910 Tue, 27 May 2025 04:11:58 -0400 <p style=”font-weight: 400;”>I feel very comfortable with my experiences, attitudes, and emotions about sexual fantasy and its role in my sex life. I feel like that might seem I am not looking at myself hard enough… but the last 2 years of my life, and why I am doing this course and going on to the Coach accreditation is because I believe in the…Read more

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