Bodysex Education | Susan Searing | Activity https://education.bodysex.com/members/susansearing/activity/ Activity feed for Susan Searing. Fri, 24 Apr 2026 15:04:00 -0400 https://buddypress.org/?v= en 30 hourly 2 a8d66ca4d675ff2906156ab7fa479565 Susan Searing replied to the topic Something to Experience/Explore in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-to-experience-explore/#post-8725 Sun, 10 Nov 2024 18:52:32 -0500 I would like to explore mutual masturbation with my husband.  We tried it briefly and he was so masculine when I saw how he handled himself.  It was a huge turn on for me,  but for him, he felt it was a waste of a good orgasm.  He prefers coming inside of me.  Also, exploring Tantra and BDSM are interesting to me.  We are going on a couples retre…Read more

]]> 0 164672ad3503daaf497b75e5b3bf7285 Susan Searing replied to the topic Judgement Experience in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/judgement-experience/#post-8724 Sun, 10 Nov 2024 18:43:29 -0500 I have worked hard to not take things personally, and truly love myself with no regrets. I present toys to women as a way to not settle with their sexuality or orgasms. I do, however, fear I will be judged when I present Bodysex as my passion.  I have worked years with elderly clients, many from a Christian school and church and want to…Read more

]]> 0 95bb6421b6965973268baa2ea8234e72 Susan Searing replied to the topic Sex Work: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-experience-attitude-emotion/#post-8723 Fri, 08 Nov 2024 18:40:49 -0500 I would like to release prior thoughts that sex workers were prostitutes and that that was not a good thing.   They are so much more. They are varied in passions and helping others to feel sexy, loved, orgasmic, held, adored and more.  Sex workers are educators and needed. I can now salute sex workers, because I am one. 

]]> 0 e1800570b2f80edde68a06a9156cede5 Susan Searing replied to the topic Sex Work: Something that Stood Out in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-work-something-that-stood-out/#post-8722 Fri, 08 Nov 2024 18:34:57 -0500 I never thought of myself as a sex worker but if that’s what Betty calls Bodysex, I am in! If teaching, celebrating and encouraging sex alone or with a partner for money is sex work, then that’s ok with me. If working on helping someone with their sexuality even for free is called sex work…then I am going to work it to the bone (pun inten…Read more

]]> 0 aef5842032e578a1f756d805bf3001af Susan Searing replied to the topic Myth About Kink/BDSM in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/myth-about-kink-bdsm/#post-8712 Wed, 30 Oct 2024 07:42:55 -0400 My misconception about Kink or BDSM was that it was scary.  I experienced a role play of a man’s hottest sexual movie through Zoom (a sex coaching practice) and I enjoyed him guiding me visually in my mind, with a collar around my neck and then to my knees. I looked up at him and he was pleasuring himself.  He crossed the line and it was not com…Read more

]]> 0 cf1e435b07a16421bc2f7986afa99f62 Susan Searing replied to the topic Kink/BDSM Activity in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/kink-bdsm-activity/#post-8710 Sun, 27 Oct 2024 23:18:23 -0400 I have utilized BDSM and kink very openly with my husband.  Some cuffs, chains and leather restraints were a part of our play.  I do enjoy it when he dominates as I am someone who advises all day and can use a break with someone else taking over the dominant role.  It is a turn on and refreshing for me.

]]> 0 1352c3a24380db5537252ca78dd0b580 Susan Searing replied to the topic Share Your Experience with Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/share-your-experience-with-tantra/#post-8706 Mon, 21 Oct 2024 23:46:55 -0400 I am curious about Tantra and feel I do incorporate breath and clenching in my orgasmic practices now. I feel if I take more time and work through my chakras and then try to clench after 30 quicker breaths that I might travel into another area of orgasm.  This will be a practice of mine with my next masturbation session.

]]> 0 a52af2338941e1fa1b361a20f7922d26 Susan Searing replied to the topic Barbara Carrellas and Tantra in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/barbara-carrellas-and-tantra/#post-8705 Mon, 21 Oct 2024 23:42:37 -0400 Barbara’s statement that orgasms clean out our systems resonated with me as it became an ah ha moment.  I have lost weight and am keeping it off and am blissful in doing so and relate a lot of this to having orgasms.  Many of my orgasms include breath and clenching and holding.  It was so beautiful to read that I am already practicing Tantra and…Read more

]]> 0 d70c1ba6bc466bff8a7582ee6427c38f Susan Searing replied to the topic End Slut Stigma in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/end-slut-stigma/#post-8699 Sat, 19 Oct 2024 18:40:55 -0400 I have a small group of friends in where we get together and share about our orgasms, vibrator and self pleasuring ideas and anything else we want to celebrate in a circle of trust. I have started talking with my 22 year old granddaughter about sexuality and feeling free to ask questions and purchased a book that I showed her.  I offered for her…Read more

]]> 0 66a936df57a1ecfe55f736373395225f Susan Searing replied to the topic Slut Stigma and Repression in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/slut-stigma-and-repression/#post-8695 Sat, 19 Oct 2024 18:24:15 -0400 The slut stigma is what makes a women feel “less” in my opinion.   It being able to celebrate sexuality, orgasms and the joy of wanting and having sex the way we want to have sex is not only depressing but depressing.  How wonderful it would be if we could just encourage self exploration and sexual expression in any fashion we want without the f…Read more

]]> 0 9e35d9d7c009c962a19b3597ad40468f Susan Searing replied to the topic Orgasms with a Group in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasms-with-a-group/#post-8691 Sat, 19 Oct 2024 15:41:11 -0400 My Bodysex group orgasm was a beautiful experience for me.  I felt so free and delighted to share my orgasm and celebrate with the orgasms of the other women.  I brought an additional toy for my friend as she had never had what she called a g-spot orgasm, the dual suction and g-spot vibration and freedom to let herself relax, breathe and enjoy w…Read more

]]> 0 4b26ad3600f1925832522485057fb436 Susan Searing replied to the topic New Relationship Awareness in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/new-relationship-awareness/#post-8687 Tue, 15 Oct 2024 01:30:03 -0400 I have really opened my eyes and mind to non monogamy in the last two yeas through sex and relationship coaching courses and Bodysex. I am open to the idea and playing around virtually however have monogamy ingrained into my being and am ok with that ad it is just not something my husband wishes to explore. Am I curious, hell yes! Do I feel I…Read more

]]> 0 4c092328fadf322ac6749242f78a326f Susan Searing replied to the topic The Ethical Slut in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-ethical-slut/#post-8685 Tue, 15 Oct 2024 01:16:23 -0400 I really took some time to digest her talk.  She reminded me so much of a cooler version on my grandmother. I loved that she feels jealousy is a trigger that can come create feelings of insecurity, territorial behavior or abandonment.  This stimulus causes emotions and can create a physical reaction that hijacks our system and messes up our s…Read more

]]> 0 1342c1f71bf7c657e05e0f2a6a779606 Susan Searing replied to the topic Human Sexuality Misconception/Myth in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/human-sexuality-misconception-myth/#post-8664 Fri, 04 Oct 2024 20:23:14 -0400 I love the idea of being in community while raising a family and taking care of each other would have been a beautiful way to live.  Perhaps monogamy is not all it’s cracked up to be. Shame and repression has grown and zinwould like to help debunk those thoughts and feelings.

]]> 0 6d35e84db03cd79e1bce87bcb6f2ea44 Susan Searing replied to the topic Information from Leonard Shlain/Alphabet vs the Goddess in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-leonard-shlain-alphabet-vs-the-goddess/#post-8663 Fri, 04 Oct 2024 20:15:04 -0400 I found this lecture hard to get through.  The thing that stood out for me, and I hope it was from this lecture, was that there were several fathers.  A woman slept with a funny man, a smart man, a good looking man, etc., to get all the traits for her child and not one man was considered the father.  It was all of them.

]]> 0 8f81087082d547d8a8304d4de5795369 Susan Searing replied to the topic Information from Chris Ryan/Sex at Dawn in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/information-from-chris-ryan-sex-at-dawn/#post-8661 Fri, 04 Oct 2024 19:54:26 -0400 I was incredibly impressed with the Bonobos and their sex before making decisions and utilizing sex as a way to reduce stress (fucking before eating).  I feel we have it backwards and seem to utilize sex as a celebration “after” a decision is made or after dinner, in my case, more of an evening delight. I was recently in a cage with monkeys wher…Read more

]]> 0 d06964833b498fa0699bd8fd60acef9b Susan Searing replied to the topic Something Learned About Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-sexual-orientation/#post-8654 Sun, 29 Sep 2024 16:35:49 -0400 Being sexual is a statement I just shared with a male friend who lost his partner recently and has gone into a deep dark hole because he is afraid to share that they were a couple.  He could not state his sexual orientation and I said it doesn’t matter.  It doesn’t matter to me what sexual orientation anyone is but it does matter if they feel…Read more

]]> 0 36fef0d8deccdbbd2e8e56feed49084c Susan Searing replied to the topic Your Sexual Orientation in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-sexual-orientation/#post-8653 Sun, 29 Sep 2024 16:28:53 -0400 I am attracted to men and want to be in a sexual relationship with a man, however female friendships are incredibly important to me and discussing sexuality with women and men is important to me. It fuels me.

]]> 0 1b19ecd440766b040a617521949c72bd Susan Searing replied to the topic Let's All Come Out! in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/lets-all-come-out/#post-8648 Mon, 23 Sep 2024 02:31:01 -0400 I am in a heterosexual monogamous marriage. I enjoy masturbation alone and with my partner before orgasm. I love sharing that we enjoy the wand along with glass inserted into my vagina together for the most explosive orgasms. I am holding back that I want to be a Bodysex facilitator to anyone that isn’t a trusted, close friend until I retire in a…Read more

]]> 0 f745c1faef4c28960c77a820eef3cea9 Susan Searing replied to the topic "Inside Betty Dodson" Article in the Forum in the forum Module 12: Sexual Expression https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inside-betty-dodson-article-in-the-forum/#post-8646 Sun, 22 Sep 2024 14:35:14 -0400 This article was my favorite yet! It wrapped all of my favorite things “Betty” with one big bow!

1. Watching partner in group sex not terrifying because you can see what he’s doing. I would have never thought of that, but it makes so much sense.
2. Masturbating to orgasm daily. Brings joy, no guilts, no hang-up’s. Having my orgasm availab…Read more

]]> 0 75a4258f9c484ad21d7a2a0e327b1e52 Susan Searing replied to the topic Chapter that Stands Out for You in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/chapter-that-stands-out-for-you-2/#post-8641 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 18:02:21 -0400 I loved anything about mutual masturbation as this is new for me.  My husband and I typically share in mostly my masturbation practices but not his.  He is too shy and doesn’t want to “waste his orgasm” before we have mutual sex. This is something I will keep encouraging along with edging to broaden our sexual relationship.  I think it is the most…Read more

]]> 0 2b3c84187030e69d0c69eace969fe87e Susan Searing replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum Orgasms for Two by Betty Dodson https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out-2/#post-8639 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 17:54:40 -0400 The audiobook is harder to reference page numbers and chapters for me.  This was my favorite of all of our required readings of Betty’s.  I absolutely loved all of the stories about her relationship with Eric, who was in my opinion the type of man and relationship I would enjoy having in my older years. She referenced his slow and gentle, alw…Read more

]]> 0 d2562896c40b8baf2c977b04d81b449e Susan Searing replied to the topic Change for Future Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/change-for-future-partner-sex/#post-8633 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 16:14:09 -0400 I have started rubbing my clit during sexual I recourse is super hot.  My husband didn’t seem to mind a bit and it allowed me to feel free to just go for it without worrying that I would hurt his feelings for not fully satisfying me.  I am in charge of my own orgasm.  It blows my mind as to how simple all of these teachings can be if we just let…Read more

]]> 0 6256a93194ae7e774e86d7e870f44f6f Susan Searing replied to the topic Partner Sex: Something Learned in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-something-learned/#post-8631 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 16:06:25 -0400 I absolutely love the idea of sharing mutual masturbation to see what each other likes and how to incorporate it into sexual intercourse. This is my number one new passion I would like to share with anyone starting a new relationship or to encourage with a current relationship. What a gift! Seeing, hearing and understanding what your partner likes.

]]> 0 e5b85509a92d536296634f12c69ffacb Susan Searing replied to the topic Birth Control: Attitude, Experience, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/birth-control-release-attitude-experience-emotion/#post-8630 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 16:00:05 -0400 I have nothing to release about my thoughts on birth control. Explore all of your available options and go with what works best for you. You are responsible for your birth control.

]]> 0 0ef68f800ccc2432cb27f929dfc337a1 Susan Searing replied to the topic Preferred Birth Control in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/preferred-birth-control/#post-8629 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 15:57:36 -0400 I only used the pill for birth control. Never did a guy offer a condom when getting intimate, so it was my responsibility to take care of my birth control.  It was easy and did not affect me in any way. I did not think about STD’s so did dodge a bullet there. I would now encourage every male and female to consider the birth control chart shown in…Read more

]]> 0 17f09fef5aed1f353d3b9c7255626b40 Susan Searing replied to the topic "Must Have" Sex Skill/Practice in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/must-have-sex-skill-practice/#post-8628 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 14:43:43 -0400 A must have sexual skill for my partner to have are patient, slow, and willing to please me hands. The ability to learn and take my communication to heart while communicating back to me honestly and openly. It is also my new desire to have more verbal communication during foreplay and sex. I am finding it to be a turn on.

]]> 0 13c6280ba788b8a494119d48a37f38bd Susan Searing replied to the topic Something Learned about Partner Sex Skills in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-about-partner-sex-skills/#post-8625 Thu, 12 Sep 2024 17:31:31 -0400 Covering my teeth with my tongue is my new must try. I had so much joy in my heart when Betty told about taking out her teeth and Carlin laughing and telling her how much she loved her.  This relationship was so beautiful.  I don’t have the ability to try that yet but I sure will when the time comes and hope I am beyond sharing what it’s like…Read more

]]> 0 f258f7c8d32582ff55b493e758c398cb Susan Searing replied to the topic Vibrator with Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vibrator-with-partner-sex/#post-8618 Wed, 11 Sep 2024 13:07:18 -0400 I learned that I shouldn’t have given my eroscillator away as I had never tried it on my clit while he penetrates me.  I did not like it near as well with the wand for my own masturbation. We do like vibration before but he doesn’t care for it if it touches his penis. I do like having sex with a vibrating butt plug as it is a lovely full feel…Read more

]]> 0 4d905de79549815ae44b89c1c3a29215 Susan Searing replied to the topic Sex Position to Try in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sex-position-to-try/#post-8616 Wed, 11 Sep 2024 12:56:27 -0400 I would like to try on top squatted with my feet rather than on my knees to run my fuck. Also the on the side scissor position where he is coming in from behind.  I can hardly wait to replay these videos with my husband. We have the best date nights that way.

]]> 0 f35f4d926e1c496c05524401f4a0d5b2 Susan Searing replied to the topic Favorite Sex Position in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/favorite-sex-position/#post-8614 Wed, 11 Sep 2024 12:51:12 -0400 My husband has bad knees so we have incorporated various “from behind” positions where he can stand or bend me over the back of our couch or side of our bed.  It’s so sexy because he tells me he likes seeing and holding my ass and hips while he thrusts.  This is usually after a minimum of a half an hour to hour if foreplay with heavy vibrati…Read more

]]> 0 dbf0be02348a0124afef47e84b37079d Susan Searing replied to the topic Communication: Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-attitude-emotion-communication/#post-8610 Sun, 08 Sep 2024 13:50:05 -0400 I feel that communication during foreplay and sex is key both verbal and by guiding and showing. Offering boundaries lovingly is also a huge portion of my communication. If done gently and lovingly, I feel my pleasure will be fully met and reciprocated on my partners end. I am blown away by the years of experiences that were meh because I did not…Read more

]]> 0 d05065c3af9a25596e50cc8987526eb4 Susan Searing replied to the topic Sexual Preference Statements in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sexual-preference-statements/#post-8607 Sun, 08 Sep 2024 13:41:30 -0400 1. I love it when you kiss me soft and long. It makes me feel connected to you and turns me on.

2. Ahhh, that feels so good when you cup your hand around my vulva after making me cum with your fingers. It’s feels like a hug and makes me want to receive you even more.

3. I really like when you bend me over the back of the couch. It feels so d…Read more

]]> 0 d362f51c43a39e34b5a87fe15ba4cf85 Susan Searing replied to the topic Communication Experience Share in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/communication-experience-share/#post-8606 Sun, 08 Sep 2024 13:26:18 -0400 I was with a boy in college, who I had been fantasizing about for the whole school year. Finally we hooked up and he took me to his place.  We made out and he tried and tried to get my tight jeans over my hips.  I was thinking how horrible this was and didn’t realize I could have helped take them off.  I thought the guy was supposed to do all of t…Read more

]]> 0 7b549afbd3e73972f69534e0ac8f98e8 Susan Searing replied to the topic Run the Fuck or Foreplay for Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/run-the-fuck-or-foreplay-for-masturbation/#post-8604 Fri, 06 Sep 2024 18:31:55 -0400 My husband and I almost always use masturbation as foreplay for fucking the past several years and then I let him run the fuck when we have partner sex.  I do live the statement and concept and am surely going to teach it and utilize it as a part of our sex session.  Nothing in my mindset has changed other than feeling the permission to do so.  …Read more

]]> 0 f8d6f56cdcd18326bf539e3c5a8a8a19 Susan Searing replied to the topic Partner Masturbation Plan in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-masturbation-plan/#post-8601 Mon, 02 Sep 2024 14:10:44 -0400 I am going to suggest my husband and I incorporate masturbation together and see how he feels about it.  We get so intent on him pleasing me that I become selfish and do not reciprocate until lately, where he allows and seems to enjoy when I go down on him.  This isn’t joint masturbation but it is a step into him getting comfortable before we go…Read more

]]> 0 8c769e1bc8681460b11299b2d9c5d012 Susan Searing replied to the topic Experience with Partner Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-partner-masturbation/#post-8600 Mon, 02 Sep 2024 12:39:30 -0400 An old boyfriend and I have masturbated virtually with each other and it is quite the turn on.   I didn’t feel comfortable enough to do this until I was much older and more secure with my body.  It is quite a turn on sexually. It teaches you more not only about what that person may like but about what turns me on while watching. It is so sim…Read more

]]> 0 a55ec8480e161090bc544c7f48b4d00a Susan Searing replied to the topic Release Experience, Attitude, Emotion in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/release-experience-attitude-emotion-2/#post-8599 Sun, 01 Sep 2024 17:58:15 -0400 I would like to release my stifling myself when wanting to share about my sexual desire and how it has evolved due to masturbation and communication. It’s coming and I look forward to the day when I can just be authentic me when broaching this subject with others.

]]> 0 8c5fb0ce69a4257bdab087e3035e01d9 Susan Searing replied to the topic Different Level of Desire Than Partner in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/different-level-of-desire-than-partner/#post-8597 Sun, 01 Sep 2024 17:53:14 -0400 I used to have a lighter sex drive than my husband until I discovered masturbation and self loving of my own body along with open communication.  Now my sex drive is off the charts with myself and with him!  I have lovingly been able to verbalize what I want and enjoy and he is a pleaser, so we have grown together.  He was threatened by ma…Read more

]]> 0 921b8f2034573c3b00891a656dfa03ae Susan Searing replied to the topic Partner Sex Beliefs/Attitudes in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-beliefs-attitudes/#post-8594 Sat, 31 Aug 2024 16:18:01 -0400 For me, this affirms that masturbation before vaginal sex for both partners can be an amazing experience and allows both partners to see what each other likes and to prepare their bodies for more of a deep connection, with their sexy organs engorged. I always felt this for myself,  it never thought of it for my husband.

]]> 0 7662ae7c6b53460d2ceb8de894f5055c Susan Searing replied to the topic Something Learned to Improve Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-to-improve-partner-sex/#post-8593 Sat, 31 Aug 2024 16:14:16 -0400 Lately, I have been warming up with my favorite toy for partner sex and tell my husband it brings blood flow to my pussy and gets her ready for him.  It makes the sensations so much more rich!  This brings it home for me when Betty affirms it not only for the female but for the male to “warm up” before a date or sex…that he could last longer.…Read more

]]> 0 df6cc282d47ccd30f631284240b128a1 Susan Searing replied to the topic My Favorite Fantasy in the forum My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/my-favorite-fantasy/#post-8589 Fri, 23 Aug 2024 12:11:51 -0400 I liked the fantasies of the young girls together.  I used to practice kissing and touching in second grade with a friend. It was so honest and pure and brought back memories of innocence and exploration of a few catholic school girls ;).  Her name was Susie and we had a small group of girlfriends and everyone liked it when they got to stay at S…Read more

]]> 0 2a1d877629e08ca27613b1a2ed369ea5 Susan Searing replied to the topic Something that Stood Out in the forum My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-that-stood-out/#post-8588 Fri, 23 Aug 2024 12:06:25 -0400 I listened to several of the stories and honestly had a hard time enjoying it on audio.  Perhaps for me reading it would have been better as the voices were hard to overcome.  I enjoyed the freedom that was felt by those releasing their stories but was not shocked or appalled by them.  I believe that we all deserve to be heard and Nancy’s open…Read more

]]> 0 d677d4ade6dcf4a96d6179cb675bb34d Susan Searing replied to the topic Something You Learned in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-you-learned/#post-8584 Thu, 22 Aug 2024 16:59:44 -0400 I am learning to visualize a different person in my minds eye and feel good about it or that it’s ok and there is no thought police within my fantasy world.  I do enjoy acting out fantasy with my husband but it sure would be fun to do in real life with someone different for variety.

]]> 0 e7b14832c9640a3a2f63db96591ef1a0 Susan Searing replied to the topic Erotica and Fantasy Preferences in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/erotica-and-fantasy-preferences/#post-8583 Thu, 22 Aug 2024 16:57:04 -0400 I really enjoy well done erotic movies or short stories.  It is a turn on for my husband and I.  Some reading is good for me alone as well as well done audio.  I am diverse and do enjoy fantasy more now than I thought I would.

]]> 0 94593cfff4ae8d0c5c22b2d4bd32b245 Susan Searing replied to the topic Audio Erotica Recommendations in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/audio-erotica-recommendations/#post-8581 Thu, 22 Aug 2024 16:53:50 -0400 I did not like audioerotica as well as Dipsea (the voices were a bit quirky for me). I do appreciate trying out all of these areas! I am like a kid in a candy store and am appreciating fantasy more than I thought I would and will never forget Betty’s quite that “there is no thought police.”

]]> 0 488193988aa6440da26273fd905d70b4 Susan Searing replied to the topic Stories on DipseaStories.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stories-on-dipseastories-com/#post-8580 Thu, 22 Aug 2024 16:45:49 -0400 I enjoyed the male accent very much in the story about a thunder storm, where he was comforting his partner.  I would have love to have been in her position with him, with his words spoken softly in a crackly, tired but sexy voice.  It was a turn on for me.

]]> 0 17f1043cac0042e9b52bd853552e4ff5 Susan Searing replied to the topic Erotic Film Recommendation in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/erotic-film-recommendation/#post-8575 Sat, 17 Aug 2024 04:29:18 -0400 My husband I watch porn periodically and really enjoy it when there is a story.  One of our favorite series is Gigolos.  It is about 5 guys that live in Vegas and the shows are about 45 minutes long, showing how women purchase their services mostly because they are just too busy for relationships.  It is well done and the friendship between th…Read more

]]> 0 61d08ddee0e1ba3c2c19de581c948c31 Susan Searing replied to the topic Films on XConfessions.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/films-on-xconfessions-com/#post-8573 Sat, 17 Aug 2024 04:21:51 -0400 I loved the film about the pizza delivery guy. It was so hot and well done. I loved how she did not know his name until the end. The sexual positions were everything I would want in fantacy. I had my way with myself after watching it.  It has really opened my eyes and mind up to more fantasy.  When I had this as homework I shared with a friend “…Read more

]]> 0 b816e53a886162123e455c56495035d4 Susan Searing replied to the topic Written Erotica Recommendation in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/written-erotica-recommendation/#post-8570 Sun, 11 Aug 2024 16:35:46 -0400 I am eager to read The Sleeping Beauty series, often mentioned lately. I just read It Ends With Us, now out in theaters.  It wasn’t quite steamy enough for me but got me where I needed to be to keep me interested. I did like Fifty Shades of Gray a lot, so anything that beats that will be a winner for me.  Sleeping Besuty here I cum!

]]> 0