Bodysex Education | Tamara | Activity https://education.bodysex.com/members/tamaraleonard/activity/ Activity feed for Tamara. Sun, 12 Apr 2026 12:53:22 -0400 https://buddypress.org/?v= en 30 hourly 2 270dd0c3ec2d909f2fc4476746b5eda9 Tamara replied to the topic Sexual Preference Statements in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/sexual-preference-statements/#post-8571 Mon, 12 Aug 2024 14:52:22 -0400 1. I really enjoy my neck kissed and rubbed.

2. I need to orgasm first before getting into any deep penetration.

3. I enjoy giving and receiving, I like to do those where I can focus fully on one or the other.

Responses:

1) Rachel – I can definitely do that, I love that you were so clear with what you want me to do exactly. I’d like to do that…Read more

]]> 0 c6c3105696a3c53e7996d529896078eb Tamara replied to the topic Communication Experience Share in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/communication-experience-share/#post-8546 Mon, 05 Aug 2024 13:42:06 -0400 When my partner and I were very new in the swinger community we had an experience that we found ourselves in because we did not communicate what we wanted and did not want to hurt the other couple’s feelings, so we sacrificed our needs for the feelings of others. It did not turn out well. We learned a lot from it and we at least were in it…Read more

]]> 0 044701aea46bfb2f6f1c0d4aa35cd74f Tamara replied to the topic Run the Fuck or Foreplay for Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/run-the-fuck-or-foreplay-for-masturbation/#post-8545 Sun, 04 Aug 2024 15:04:26 -0400 <ul class=”wp-block-list”>

  •  How have the concepts of “run the fuck” and “fucking can be foreplay for masturbation” challenged or shifted your beliefs about and/or participation in partner sex activities?

    • I enjoy knowing that I have the confidence to communicate with my partner what I need, what feels good and what I’d like to do while sharing…Read more

    ]]>     0     3b117c4e187dc9ca9936ce96184cfedf Tamara replied to the topic Partner Masturbation Plan in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-masturbation-plan/#post-8544 Sun, 04 Aug 2024 14:00:35 -0400 I actually already do this quite frequently so I’ve got the backing of the universe to keep going!

    ]]>     0     d0b1e2e22656c3f1aaad84061d1ca0a6 Tamara replied to the topic Experience with Partner Masturbation in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/experience-with-partner-masturbation/#post-8543 Sun, 04 Aug 2024 13:59:49 -0400 I have a few regular partners right now and masturbating with them is a core essential in our knowing of each other. Through this I can understand their facial expressions, what it looks like as they are building up to an orgasm as well as can study their hand techniques and what they like to go to. I find that it is a very important part of…Read more

    ]]>     0     4cdafc2825a5570e2eba76777bf82116 Tamara replied to the topic Different Level of Desire Than Partner in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/different-level-of-desire-than-partner/#post-8541 Fri, 02 Aug 2024 17:55:15 -0400 There was a period of time that my job was super stressful with the number of cases I was handling and I wasn’t handling my stress well. At that time we had to have some serious discussions about our sexual life, what that was looking like for us and how we would handle it. I would get upset if he would ask me to masturbate with him because I was…Read more

    ]]>     0     74aa1fd6b0a6ad212b9de437574a06bb Tamara replied to the topic Partner Sex Beliefs/Attitudes in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/partner-sex-beliefs-attitudes/#post-8540 Fri, 02 Aug 2024 16:57:00 -0400 No changes for me – but confirms that using my vibrator during penetration is how I like to orgasm with partner sex. That the sex act does not stop when a man orgasms, that sex stops when both partners are satisfied – and even if sex stops with the partner, we are all responsible for our own orgasm so if they needed to leave for whatever reason,…Read more

    ]]>     0     72a5933377d344f25dd42745fdd59f16 Tamara replied to the topic Something Learned to Improve Partner Sex in the forum Module 11: Partner Sex https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-learned-to-improve-partner-sex/#post-8539 Fri, 02 Aug 2024 16:53:55 -0400 The main take away I’ve experience is that partner sex is a sharing and that you don’t give someone an orgasm, you share an orgasm with them. That mutual masturbation before any partner sex and talking about what turns you on/off and how you like to masturbate is an amazing foundation when adding new partners to your life.

    ]]>     0     d3de575fe5d4bdcaa096b60cc454d8d8 Tamara replied to the topic Something You Learned in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-you-learned/#post-8530 Thu, 01 Aug 2024 16:11:35 -0400 I realized that I am not creating as much fantasy in my mind and I am more focused on the sensate experience as the majority of sex that I have is in group sex and voyeur situations and it fully encompasses my fantasy – when I am masturbating I do visualize someone coming in to penetrate me, replacing the barbell, but it is light in comparison to…Read more

    ]]>     0     487a4c8cc171176be5d9e855b763d880 Tamara replied to the topic Erotica and Fantasy Preferences in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/erotica-and-fantasy-preferences/#post-8529 Thu, 01 Aug 2024 16:03:47 -0400 I enjoy visual and written erotica – the audio has not been as hot as I need to find some actors that I can get into – what I explored was a little too campy with the acting. I personally enjoy power differentials and role playing – student/teacher, coach/athlete, boss/secretary, yoga instructor etc. I make a lot of videos that explore my fantasy…Read more

    ]]>     0     2f5ae85dfbd34c2eddea007e63bdfc9d Tamara replied to the topic Erotic Film Recommendation in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/erotic-film-recommendation/#post-8525 Mon, 29 Jul 2024 14:40:37 -0400 I wish I knew the name of it – it is a movie made by Erica Lust that is a woman moves into a new apartment and she inadvertently realises that the man upstairs is a professional domme, and through her snooping she got herself stuck in a closet in his apartment by snooping around and him coming back with a client. It was the hottest scene – the…Read more

    ]]>     0     17034e4375d6aed59c7ae8313f571aa1 Tamara replied to the topic Written Erotica Recommendation in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/written-erotica-recommendation/#post-8519 Sun, 28 Jul 2024 20:06:08 -0400 I loved reading the Anne Rice vampire diaries growing up and they had their own edge of sexual tension throughout. I also read Diana Galbaldon’s Outlander series way before it became a Starz series – I found both of those in my early teens and read them throughout.

    ]]>     0     f0fca2633237717f150c0038d731cc2d Tamara replied to the topic Stories on Literotica.com in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/stories-on-literotica-com/#post-8518 Sun, 28 Jul 2024 20:05:22 -0400 It was a story about a man and his girlfriend read from his perspective, the story read in the direction that he had to figure out who his girlfriend’s tits were – it was hot with all of the blindfold play and how the women were taking charge with him. I liked that aspect of the story that he had to do all that they said or he would have to leave.…Read more

    ]]>     0     df750daf8da809c0ebcd301d82713900 Tamara replied to the topic Inspiration from Erotic Art in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/inspiration-from-erotic-art/#post-8516 Sun, 28 Jul 2024 14:09:13 -0400 The one that Betty drew that had all of the women in various levels of self pleasure, cuddling and sharing pleasure/oral with eachother. I thought that was a perfect group of friends and would be an amazing experience. They all looked so relaxed and happy that it appeared that they had already been there for hours and that they had no plans of…Read more

    ]]>     0     be9ae6328bf4473d73a2973fc8f08673 Tamara replied to the topic Creating Your Fantasy in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/creating-your-fantasy/#post-8513 Wed, 24 Jul 2024 18:39:04 -0400 I found that I was going into creating public fantasy scenes of in changing rooms at the mall, out in a car, other places that you could almost get caught – I usually am really not into outdoor public things -I’m always scared of cops rolling up and arresting me so its hard for me to enjoy going to play in the car somewhere … so it was wonderful…Read more

    ]]>     0     d8d01b92c163b6bd2c0f125b66c112b0 Tamara replied to the topic Fantasy Experience, Attitude or Emotion in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/fantasy-experience-attitude-or-emotion/#post-8505 Sun, 21 Jul 2024 15:12:37 -0400 I have a decent amount of requests for me to play into fantasies of others that include mommy – son type of play and I just can’t go there. It makes me uncomfortable and I don’t know why. So I just dont do it – I will play in age play – like I’m the hot 40-something cougar educating a young buck – but family play, I just can’t get into myself.

    ]]>     0     ead5002e865322c2aca870e1d13a4b27 Tamara replied to the topic Current Fantasy Practice in the forum Module 10: Fantasy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/current-fantasy-practice/#post-8504 Sun, 21 Jul 2024 15:11:15 -0400 With the work that I do I hear so many fantasies and get to even act some out and allow them to come to life – in my mind and my own personal fantasies I have it where someone is watching me through the door of my room while I masturbate and as I am rising up I get the overwhelming urge to tell them that they have to come in and fuck me and my…Read more

    ]]>     0     efe55f1ed92d42a4ba343a46893a327a Tamara replied to the topic Masturbation Attitudes/Beliefs in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/masturbation-attitudes-beliefs/#post-8498 Fri, 19 Jul 2024 13:54:05 -0400 What has shifted for me is that I really need to make it a point to find more time to give myself the chance to do the R&R more often. I like being able to be open and relaxed, I find myself to be very beautiful when I do the R&R when I’ve had the chance to watch myself.

    ]]>     0     6fde3660d33881606db2a41d002be33a Tamara replied to the topic Your Masturbation Practice in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-masturbation-practice/#post-8497 Fri, 19 Jul 2024 13:52:56 -0400 My masturbation practice starts with first getting comfortable and in the mental state that I am looking forward to sex with myself. I then go to vulva massage to wake things up with lots of oil. I often do go right to the vibrator after the vulva massage, which I have been shifting to also include penetration. Its more out of laziness than not…Read more

    ]]>     0     acb24d664448749ef8eebd9886671deb Tamara replied to the topic Female Ejaculation in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/female-ejaculation/#post-8496 Fri, 19 Jul 2024 13:42:54 -0400 I regularly play with a few women that are squirters – it is a byproduct of lots of vaginal and clitoral stimulation and is after a few orgasms but is not an orgasm itself. Also when they talk about their squirting some say that there is a method they use, others say that it is at random – that the same conditions can happen a second session and…Read more

    ]]>     0     f9132b949210544fb07f65b6bbbe6b3c Tamara replied to the topic Edging in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/edging/#post-8495 Fri, 19 Jul 2024 13:39:12 -0400 Some play partners of mine really really enjoy edging – to the point of edging for either hours or over multiple days. So I have helped in those situations of they take it to where they are about to orgasm (these are women I am talking about) and then we pull back, give 30 seconds and start again with the vibrator/penetration and continue that way…Read more

    ]]>     0     2b89abb63e5c48568dbce3329429517d Tamara replied to the topic Multiple Orgasms in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/multiple-orgasms/#post-8494 Fri, 19 Jul 2024 13:36:46 -0400 I liked the feedback from Betty in the video of the continue to pump the PC and keep the hips rocking and moving – it’s like you are signaling to the body that you aren’t done yet and want to keep the energy moving. I agree that my experience has been if I have a larger orgasm there are body spasms after that continue to create good feelings – but…Read more

    ]]>     0     5de01e74aced046a18d1f556b675dfc9 Tamara replied to the topic Something You Learned from the Orgasmic Women in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-you-learned-from-the-orgasmic-women/#post-8483 Sun, 14 Jul 2024 23:27:08 -0400 That bathtub hose was really something! I have a swim-spa so I should spend some time out there with the jets, they are really powerful! 🙂 But in the bathtub sounds absolutely wonderful. The clips looked interesting, I may want to try that as a 3rd or 4th orgasm – but perhaps with controlled clips like nipple claps that have a rotation tension…Read more

    ]]>     0     5915504ba5efc290a5ed715e65a53a5d Tamara replied to the topic What Stood Out in the Orgasmic Women Video in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-stood-out-in-the-orgasmic-women-video/#post-8482 Sun, 14 Jul 2024 23:25:21 -0400 What stood out for me was their confidence as well as that they all had a history of masturbating as a child, mapping those nerve endings – they were able to wire for pleasure. They all had such unique different styles of orgasm. Listening to them was amazing.

    ]]>     0     a026d521c49bac06d1d2be349dd496ff Tamara replied to the topic Betty's Masturbation Session in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/bettys-masturbation-session/#post-8471 Sat, 13 Jul 2024 14:43:51 -0400 I loved it all. Seeing her be nervous and her sharing that she was nervous was endearing. That despite all that she has done and had accomplished, she was continually honest with her emotions and what she was going through any given time. It was a little window into her life. And also her physical and verbal self love was inspiring and beautiful.

    ]]>     0     606af0b2eb8f60121cb87d722c893610 Tamara replied to the topic Something New You Learned in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/something-new-you-learned/#post-8470 Sat, 13 Jul 2024 14:41:54 -0400 I learned that it does feel so much better to keep moving and keep breathing; I can tend to tense up and hold my breath because I know I can orgasm consistently with a tension style. I felt watching myself do a R&R orgasm was a lot more visually stimulating to myself, which helped it also to be a self love experience. I also was a lot more engaged…Read more

    ]]>     0     084d9814954db3f1fc672d41b144b94a Tamara replied to the topic Favorite Masturbation Techniques in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/favorite-masturbation-techniques/#post-8469 Sat, 13 Jul 2024 14:37:57 -0400 I have to admit, usually I am in a hurry and do a tension&pressure style where I do start with a vulva massage, and then I start with the vibrator on low with some squeezes of my PC muscles, but I don’t always move my hips and I pull a leg toward my body to push my inner clitoris into the vibrator area in addition to having the vibrator just above…Read more

    ]]>     0     7c58df763a6e4195ba69d22722314925 Tamara replied to the topic Masturbation Myths in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/masturbation-myths/#post-8468 Wed, 10 Jul 2024 00:50:13 -0400 Some myths are that women do not masturbate and people that masturbate must do so because they cannot find a lover. And if one had a lover, they wouldn’t need to touch themselves anymore. This represses female sexuality in that women are not supposed to touch themselves because a lover is supposed to do that, and if they do, it’s because they…Read more

    ]]>     0     33be4f5d98e4a48093039623011bb879 Tamara replied to the topic Attitudes, Feelings, Beliefs About Masturbation in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/attitudes-feelings-beliefs-about-masturbation/#post-8467 Wed, 10 Jul 2024 00:47:05 -0400 As a child when I was “caught” doing pressure orgasms I was scolded and I got in trouble at both home and at school. They had a conference about me. I did it out in public once and my mom really freaked out. So I learned in kindergarten that sex is scary or should be underground. I continued to have pressure orgasms but felt dirty/guilty. If I did…Read more

    ]]>     0     3d5527710da54c89333e2f27b1f7ecde Tamara replied to the topic Vibrators: Share What You Like in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vibrators-share-what-you-like/#post-8463 Sun, 07 Jul 2024 18:36:07 -0400 I like the magic wand as well as the domi by lovense (https://www.lovense.com/super-powerful-wand-massager?utm_term=domi%20by%20lovense&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=English_AllCountries_Brand_Always_On&gclid=Cj0KCQjw-ai0BhDPARIsAB6hmP4u2HQK738Ggl6g2f5JmHTVfkQWlm3AofXHQqOc-mR7InHV1iIlDoEaAuqsEALw_wcB).

    The domi has multiple…Read more

    ]]>     0     30b0e72d58b5829928be911d33b10af0 Tamara replied to the topic Vibrators: First-Time Stories in the forum Module 9: Masturbation https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/vibrators-first-time-stories/#post-8462 Sun, 07 Jul 2024 18:14:48 -0400 I really dont remember the first time I used a vibrator – I do remember having an old purple one that looked like the mystic wand as well as I had bought one in college at a sex toy party that had an internal part and a dolphin for the clit. I remember trying to use it but if I had the internal part in my vagina the dolphin’s nose really never…Read more

    ]]>     0     2b5541b0e6bd4b5f27e07feb4026465f Tamara replied to the topic Important Awareness About Penetration in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/important-awareness-about-penetration/#post-8454 Sat, 06 Jul 2024 16:49:59 -0400 Penetration is a place of self empowerment. Penetration is a place of personal ownership, that you are understanding your body, what feels good and will allow for entry when and if you want it and when it feels good to do so. And that penetration is a natural part and what many want but that it needs to be on a woman’s terms and at a rate and pace…Read more

    ]]>     0     8f4f56702f1e0ae8421065d8be874710 Tamara replied to the topic Anal Pleasure Tips and Desires in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/anal-pleasure-tips-and-desires/#post-8453 Sat, 06 Jul 2024 15:43:04 -0400 When we’ve had good anal, we have the right lube, I am very very orgasmed in that I have probably orgasmed 2-3-4 times in the session, and we are very patient and going very slow. I like missionary anal the best, we prop up my hips on a wedge (we enjoy the liberator line – we have both the small and big wedge) and I can from there vary how high I…Read more

    ]]>     0     cf6e60cfee3f2892527d3d2f131d07a6 Tamara replied to the topic Anal Penetration Attitudes and Beliefs in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/anal-penetration-attitudes-and-beliefs/#post-8452 Sat, 06 Jul 2024 15:36:15 -0400 I didn’t know about the nerve endings being so plentiful in the anus; I had thought before that it was more of a secondary stimulation of the internal clitoris that felt so good when my body was opened up for anal. I’ve had mixed experiences with anal and that at times when we have tried there has been a burning sensation. When that happened I had…Read more

    ]]>     0     447b72c89f1916776ecca8e8307c9a06 Tamara replied to the topic Painful Penetration in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/painful-penetration/#post-8451 Sat, 06 Jul 2024 14:42:45 -0400 I worked through a big painful penetration experience through Bodysex but I did not know it. I had an experience that I was with a relatively new boyfriend, 3 mos or so, and he took me on a very swanky vacation at this resort that we had a butler, fancy dinners etc. On our first night there, after dinner, we had sex. I think I was stressed about…Read more

    ]]>     0     6e1b6f08d5d8bc0f1af9da5207c6be0c Tamara replied to the topic Penetration Preference in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/penetration-preference/#post-8450 Sat, 06 Jul 2024 13:41:34 -0400 For penetration I enjoy a lot of vulva massage ahead of time and I also enjoy an orgasm before partner sex. When my partner and I play we usually stimulate each other for the beginning with kisses and touching and then we focus on me to bring me to my first orgasm. Sometimes I enjoy one or two fingers for penetration for the first orgasm, but this…Read more

    ]]>     0     159b90d77862c280211066d977a32759 Tamara replied to the topic Betty's Barbell in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/bettys-barbell/#post-8449 Sat, 06 Jul 2024 13:33:20 -0400 It was neat to learn about the origin of the barbell was to ensure that a product that was female-oriented as well as solo use ready could be on the market. It was beautiful as Betty made many of her movements in her business life based on a need that was created through interactions she had with others. Its great how she saw what that man brought…Read more

    ]]>     0     4b26c10a4f6194e4adb864640676e5e6 Tamara replied to the topic Is Penetration Significant? in the forum Module 8: Penetration https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/is-penetration-significant/#post-8445 Fri, 05 Jul 2024 14:04:22 -0400 Penetration is significant to me as there are two experiences in my past with penetration that I didn’t want, so I am now very much in ownership of who and how I am penetrated. I am willing to verbalize when I need things slowed down, pacing and when I am open to being penetrated. I do play with a decent amount of women, and it seems that some…Read more

    ]]>     0     c70433a79ff1e4657169183739e54ea2 Tamara replied to the topic Forum: "All Women Can Orgasm . . ." in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/forum-all-women-can-orgasm/#post-8441 Wed, 03 Jul 2024 14:16:52 -0400 Core belief of “all women can orgasm” – the Bodysex circle supports this in that all shares are first person. It is the understanding in that light that we are all responsible for our own orgasm and our own bodies. Otherwise this process would include us being told that we need to tell them what to do or they have to do it exactly one way. The…Read more

    ]]>     0     7ac4f12c70b441b442923516c902dee0 Tamara replied to the topic What mightmake it difficult for a woman to orgasm? in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-makes-it-difficult-for-a-woman-to-orgasm/#post-8440 Wed, 03 Jul 2024 14:01:55 -0400 A women may find it difficult to reach orgasm if she is not creating the mental environment that is conducive to orgasm. This includes understanding that pleasure is her birthright and that she deserves pleasure. If she doesn’t feel she deserves pleasure, at the first thoughts of anti-orgasm in the moment, she may pack it up and “try again another…Read more

    ]]>     0     3a8615c32fe7ee84e17faac8a00b577e Tamara replied to the topic "The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm" by Anne Koedt in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-myth-of-the-vaginal-orgasm-by-anne-koedt/#post-8439 Wed, 03 Jul 2024 13:56:44 -0400 What stood out for me is that the understanding of a woman’s pleasure anatomy is such a simple thing to see and understand, but that there are so many factors at play in society to close off that wanting to see the reality of women versus the assumption of women. Also the idea that men with fingers can make a very good lover. None of us that are…Read more

    ]]>     0     d77d4e7e136b45b9c0ea4e6d0f60d242 Tamara replied to the topic Important Information About Orgasm in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/important-information-about-orgasm/#post-8438 Tue, 02 Jul 2024 14:05:31 -0400 It is important to know that our erection does not dissipate quickly so if you are at a point that you are so desperate to orgasm, this is when it is too goal oriented and to back down, take a break, bring it back to massage, and in a few minutes return to the good feelings. From there, remember it is an autonomic body response so it will come…Read more

    ]]>     0     cb0ad41417832f9d06e75c26aba49f14 Tamara replied to the topic The Orgasm Project in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/forum-the-orgasm-project/#post-8437 Tue, 02 Jul 2024 14:02:32 -0400 I was specifically connected with Anonymous Age 30; she started with tension/pressure orgasms by grinding as a small child, she didn’t know that what she was doing was orgasm but she knew it was supposed to be private. When discovering masturbation she did not talk about it with any close people. She found Betty and Carlin through youtube at 18/19…Read more

    ]]>     0     4f155dd2f8cad34643cf76fd9bfcca1a Tamara replied to the topic Orgasm Myths and Misconceptions in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/orgasm-myths-and-misconceptions/#post-8428 Sun, 30 Jun 2024 18:16:15 -0400 A main myth is the anorgasmic myth. That some women “can’t” orgasm and that the society has built an industry around it of trying to “treat” anorgasmic women. The truth is that all women are orgasmic unless they have had their entire internal and external clitoral system removed, which even in GSM it is usually only the external clit that is…Read more

    ]]>     0     b7d4bcfbbd78c6806728bf835df80e06 Tamara replied to the topic What is Orgasm? in the forum Module 7: Orgasm https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-is-orgasm/#post-8427 Sun, 30 Jun 2024 18:13:29 -0400 An orgasm to me starts in the mind, getting into a place of receiving pleasure. Starting there with a mindset that I would like to experience pleasure and grateful that my body is capable of providing this to me at any time. From there, it goes into touching and feeling, being present in the moment. It is an all encompassing mindful moment. I am…Read more

    ]]>     0     1e98cd040306ef0b1b20956bd180b0ae Tamara replied to the topic What Women Should Know in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/what-women-should-know/#post-8423 Sun, 30 Jun 2024 15:30:30 -0400 Women should know exactly what the correct diagrams look like for their pleasure center. The video drawn by betty of the internal clitoris is a great place to start in addition to the drawing of both the inside and outside, as well as the labels on a real vulva like Carlin has done with hers. This creates a framework from which to have the…Read more

    ]]>     0     39e53e14addcbc5a131d2a383c39ce48 Tamara replied to the topic Your Dream for Girls/Women to Access Information in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/your-dream-for-girls-women-to-access-information/#post-8422 Sat, 29 Jun 2024 04:06:02 -0400 My dream is that sexual education surpasses just the reproductive stance. We show children funny tv shows, give them favorite foods, engage in activities that they enjoy, so we do teach children pleasure. We teach them that life can be enjoyable for the sake of engaging in pleasure. It would be amazing for sexuality to be just as house-hold…Read more

    ]]>     0     390313b530e16337da2402ed250912ea Tamara replied to the topic Why is It Liberating? in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/why-is-it-liberating/#post-8421 Sat, 29 Jun 2024 04:01:31 -0400 It is liberating for women to know about their pleasure anatomy as this reinforces that we are wired for pleasure and that sexual experiences are those that can be chosen because of pleasure. Women have the opportunity to engage in self sex for as long as they would like to when they understand their anatomy as children/teens before engaging in…Read more

    ]]>     0     673c3535e917d92ab7674fc770be9ad4 Tamara replied to the topic Lack of Clitoris Education and Sexual Repression in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/clitoris-education-and-sexual-repression/#post-8420 Sat, 29 Jun 2024 03:18:46 -0400 For me, in my home, having a boyfriend/husband/relationship was paramount and pleasure was not discussed. So in that way, sex was an exchange where closeness and a need-to-be-needed were provided to the woman in exchange for the man’s sexual pleasure. I personally engaged in more sex than I would have wanted through my developmental years in order…Read more

    ]]>     0     6a34415ec55df25421a845571b6e3eea Tamara replied to the topic The Clitoris Bodysex Core Belief in the forum Module 6: Pleasure Anatomy https://education.bodysex.com/forums/topic/the-clitoris-bodysex-core-belief/#post-8419 Sat, 29 Jun 2024 03:15:07 -0400 Showing the anatomy and discussing the complexity of the clitoris from what we can see on the outside coupled with what is happening on the inside in the arousal cycle would be a good place to start with education. I would walk her through the shaft, glans, legs and bulbs and talk about how that is where all of the nerve endings are, and that we…Read more

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